Confidence is Sexy

Confidence draws people like catnip

Confidence is sexy. Magnetic.
It attracts soulmates who adore you …
Friends who love and support you and your dreams …
Clients who believe in you, respect you and brag about you to their friends …
Even success itself.
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You know how vital confidence is for success in any area of your life, so …
  • You give yourself pep talks
  • You plaster your walls with vision boards and inspiring quotes
  • You visualize your goals until you’re cross-eyed
And yet, confidence eludes you … and so do your dreams, left to languish in the “it might have been” swamp of shame and regret.
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Want some help with that?
Let the FREE healing circle “Feel Confident Here and Now” help you develop faith in yourself.
If you think it’s time you started moving in the direction of your dreams – join us!
In this 30-minute guided meditation, you will:
  • Discover how to build emotional confidence and keep it strong
  • Release unconscious beliefs like “I am not enough” and “There is something wrong with me,” which defeat you before you start
  • Gain a new understanding of how gifted and powerful you really are so you can start attracting the great people and marvelous opportunities that have been waiting to meet you
If this sounds good to you, click on this link to register for this free healing meditation.
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You are a blessing to all of us, my dear. Please consider sharing yourself and your one-of-a-kind gifts. They are needed. You are needed.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, my friend.
I hope to see you in our healing circle.
In the meantime, wishing you a wonderful day!
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The #1 Way You Sabotage Yourself

When you stop doing this, amazing things can happen

When Sean turns six years old, he begs for piano lessons.

His father George agrees to hire a teacher on a trial basis for one month.

George listens in as Sean’s fingers touch the keys and slowly play “Chopsticks.”

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When Sean hits a sour note, his father winces. “Can’t even play ‘Chopsticks,’ George mutters to himself. “This will be a waste of money.”

The piano teacher, Mrs. Jones, tells Sean’s parents he had great potential. Sean’s mother Amy agrees to pay for her son’s lessons when George says he will fire Mrs. Jones after her month’s trial has ended.

—–>>> Flash forward to Sean at 18

“Dad, I’ve been accepted into Juilliard!” Sean whoops, waving the letter of acceptance at George.

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“What?! You can’t expect me to pay for that!” George roars.

“You don’t have to! I’ve been given a full scholarship, Dad – you don’t have to pay a dime!” Sean takes his father’s hands as if to lift him up and dance him around the room.

George stays glued to his seat. “What’s the matter with those Juilliard people?” he growls. “Since when do they give out scholarships to kids who can’t even play ‘Chopsticks’?”

—–>>> Flash forward to Sean at 36

“Dad, I just had to tell you the wonderful news!” Sean shouts into his phone. “My opera won the Pulitzer Prize!”

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“No way!” George snarls. “They must have really lowered their standards, giving out Pulitzers to kids who can’t play ‘Chopsticks.’”

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What do you think about a father like George, who keeps throwing Sean’s youthful errors into his face?

Do you think George believes shaming Sean has spurred him to greater heights of accomplishment?

Do you think Sean would achieve less or more if he had his father’s support?

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Do you talk to yourself the way George talks to Sean?

This is the #1 way you sabotage yourself

When you shame yourself, confidence and motivation jump out the window. Inspiration drains away. A part of you dies.

Do you think you would accomplish less or more if you stopped shaming yourself over mistakes you made years ago – or five minutes ago?

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Would you like to stop shaming yourself now?

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart now.

Inhale, taking a deep breath. Imagine pure white light filling the center of your mind, the center of your heart and the base of your spine.

Exhale, imagining the white light spreading out to fill your entire body, being, and field of consciousness.

Good!

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If you would like more help letting go of the self-shaming that sabotages you, let the FREE healing circle “Feel Confident Here and Now” support you in becoming more supportive of yourself, your dreams and your goals.

We meet online and by phone at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time on Tuesday, April 10, so you can join us from anywhere in the world.

In this 30-minute guided meditation, you will:

  • Discover how to build emotional confidence and keep it strong
  • Release unconscious beliefs like “I am not enough” and “There is something wrong with me,” which defeat you before you start
  • Gain a new understanding of how gifted and powerful you really are so you can start attracting the great people and marvelous opportunities that have been waiting to meet you

If this sounds good to you, click on this link to register for this free healing meditation.

Can’t make the live call? Register anyway to get free access to the limited-time replay. The healings work just as well whether you listen live or later.

Hope to see you there, my dear friend!

 

One Way Clarity Makes Your Life Easier

If indecision keeps you stuck, check this out

Wouldn’t it be great if you could make up your mind about the important stuff – like your work, your purpose, or your relationship – with ease and grace?

Clarity makes that possible.

First, let’s get clear about what clarity is.

It’s knowing:

  • What you want to be
  • What you want to do
  • What you want to have

When you have clarity, your life gets easier right away because …

Decisions become a no-brainer

confidence andre-hunter-62014When you know what you want to be, do, and have, you can examine every choice through the lens of: “Does this option take me closer to, or further from, what I want?”

If it takes you further from what you want, you say “No” to that choice.

If it takes you closer to what you want, you say “Yes” to that choice.

If you’re not sure, flip a coin – heads for Yes, tails for No.

Whichever way you hope the coin comes up, you have your answer.

Your hope reveals what you truly want.

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It can be hard to clear the clouds of confusion and doubt all by yourself.

The good news is, you don’t have to.

Join tonight’s FREE “Get Clarity” Healing Circle to get support in finding out what you want to be, do and have – so you can start walking toward the life calling out to you.

We meet tonight at 5 p.m. Pacific Time online and by phone, so you can join us from anywhere in the world … and I would love it if you do.

Can’t make it tonight? Sign up anyway to get access to the replay

 

 

Healing Circle warren-wong-323107-unsplashIn our 30-minute guided meditation, you will:

  • Discover why you’ve felt confused about what you want – and clear it up
  • Release unconscious beliefs like “I can never have what I want” and “If I know what I want I’ll have to do something about it,” which block clarity from coming to you
  • Gain a new understanding of what is possible for you, so you can get out of your own way and get on with creating the richly fulfilling life you deserve

Whether you listen live or later, this healing circle will help you find your way to the clarity that makes indecision a thing of the past.

Sign up here to join tonight’s FREE healing circle.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, my dear friend.

May this day bring you many delightful surprises!

Reason #1 Why It’s Hard to Get Clarity

You lose touch with yourself when you lose sight of your dreams

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

It can be hard to have clarity if part of you believes clarity is a really bad idea.

If you tend to feel confused about what you want or how to get it, chances are you have unconscious beliefs blocking your ability to set and reach goals that are meaningful to you.

It’s not your fault

If you’re like most people, you grew up hearing “No!” a lot – from parents, teachers, big brothers and other authority figures.

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Maybe you stopped asking for what you want because you knew your request would be refused – so why bother to ask?

Maybe you even pretended you didn’t want anything, to avoid the pain and shame of yet another “No.”

Repressing desires that you feel sure will go unsatisfied is a normal way of protecting yourself from disappointment.

The downside: you lose yourself when you lose touch with your dreams and desires.

So, if you have trouble getting clear about your dreams or goals, it may be because a very strong, smart, loving part of you believes that if you get clarity, something bad will happen.

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Here’s the bottom line

It’s impossible to create a fulfilling life unless you know what fulfills you.

This involves knowing what you want, need, and value – the first step to turning your dreams into your reality.

Part of you already knows. More clarity will come when confusion stops serving you.

You see, getting clarity can seem scary if your wounded inner child believes clarity = disappointment, rejection, or shame. What sane person wants that?

So, none of your blocks to clarity will go away until your unconscious mind believes it is safe for you to know what you want and how to get it.

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Want some help with that?

  • Would you like your Higher Power to show you why it is safe for you to have clarity now?
  • Would you like to know what will happen if you have clarity, in relation to what you have imagined would happen?
  • Would you like to know why it is safe for you, and safe for others, for you to know and reach for your dreams now?
  • Would you like to know how to confidently take the next step now?

If you would like these healing downloads, please say “Yes” out loud now.

Imagine shimmering rainbow light shining down through the top of your head and filling your body.

Notice how you feel.

Good job! Thank you!

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

Would you like to get clarity, so you can start creating a richly fulfilling life, one inspired step at a time?

It can be hard to lift away your blocks to clarity all by yourself.

The good news is, you don’t have to.

If you would like to experience more healings, please join us for the FREE “Get Clarity Here and Now” healing circle on Tuesday, March 13, 2018.

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We meet at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time online and by phone, so you can join us from anywhere in the world … and I would love it if you do.

In this 30-minute healing meditation, you will:

  • Discover why you have felt confused about what you want – and clear it up
  • Release unconscious beliefs like “I can never have what I want” and “If I know what I want I’ll have to do something about it,” which block clarity from coming to you
  • Gain a new understanding of what is possible for you so you can get on with creating the richly fulfilling life you deserve

Can’t make the live call? Sign up anyway to get access to the limited-time replay.

If you are DONE with floundering and flopping your way through life, check out this healing circle. You never know. One idea could change your life.

 

 

 

Reason #2 Why It’s Hard to Find Your Passion

Too much loss can make you lose faith in life, making finding your passion seem pointless

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

It can be hard to find your passion if you have little or no faith in life.

If doubt and disbelief arise when you think about finding and pursuing a passion, chances are you feel too betrayed by life to risk taking a chance one more time.

It’s not your fault

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If you’re like most people, you have experienced loss and suffering time and time again.

To avoid further disappointment, you gave up hoping for anything better.

Closing the door on hope is a normal self-protective practice – until it shrivels your soul and you trudge through your days with nothing fun or good to look forward to.

So, if you can’t find your passion, it may be because you’re afraid to believe again – which is understandable, given your past experiences.

Yet, without passion … without a joyful reason to get up in the morning … you are only going through the motions of living. You are half alive.

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Here’s the bottom line

If you want to find your passion, you need to find a reason to believe again.

If you’re like most people, you feel betrayed by life because things haven’t always gone your way – therefore, you cannot trust life.

This line of reasoning only proves the shortcomings of logic, because it overlooks the bigger picture:

Life is a dynamic process, always on the move. Our planet hurtles through space at more than 500,000 miles per hour.

To expect that life will always go in the direction you want is to invite disappointment.

Instead of declaring life to be bad and wrong because it hasn’t followed your game plan, consider revising your game plan to include faith that whatever happens, you will handle it somehow.

It stands to reason because you’ve handled everything life has brought you, so far. The fact that you are breathing in and out proves that you are strong and smart and brave and lucky, for many people have not lived to see the age you are right now.

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Want some healings around this?

Would you like Infinite Love to heal the wounds of disappointment, despair and desperation you have suffered?

Would you like to understand that what felt like rejections were truly protections, in ways that make sense to you?

Would you like your Higher Power to give you the highest understanding of how to work with Life in the highest, best, most wonderful ways?

Would you like to feel loved and supported by Life now, and going forward?

If you would like these healing downloads, please say “Yes” out loud now.

Imagine rainbow light sparkling through all dimensions of your body, mind, heart, and soul.

Notice how you feel.

Good job! Thank you!

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

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Would you like to find your passion, so you can enjoy more fun and freedom in your life?

It can be hard to step out of the prison of self-protective doubt and disbelief all by yourself.

The good news is, you don’t have to.

Join this month’s FREE “Find Your Passion” Healing Circle to get support in finding your passion and expressing it in ways that fill you with joy.

We meet Tuesday, February 13 at 5 p.m. Pacific Time online and by phone, so you can join us from anywhere in the world … and I would love it if you do.

In our 30-minute guided meditation, you will:

  • Discover your passion so you can experience more freedom, fun and fulfillment right away
  • Gain clarity about your passion, so you can take steps to add more joy to your daily life
  • Connect with the gifts your soul came here to share, so your life takes on greater depth and meaning

If this sounds good to you, click on the link here to register for this free online healing circle.

If you can’t make the live call, go ahead and register anyway so you can get a link to the limited-time replay.

To get the most out of the “Find Your Passion” healing circle, please take a moment to answer the questions on the registration form. Not a requirement – just a suggestion to enrich your experience.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, my dear friend.

May this day bring you many delightful surprises!

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Reason #1 Why It’s Hard to Find Your Passion

If you feel bored or flat most of the time, check this out

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

It can be hard to find your passion if nothing arouses your interest for more than five minutes or so.

If you tend to feel bored, flat, or numb most of the time, chances are you’re emotionally shut down.
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It’s not your fault 

If you’re like most people, you have suffered more pain in your life than you can handle.

To survive, you deadened your emotions so you could function in your daily life.

An emotional shutdown is a normal self-protective practice – until it takes over the shop, when that numbness armors you against joy and love, as well as pain because you can’t feel anything.

So, if you can’t find your passion, it may be because you’ve lost touch with your feelings. Strong emotion is what signals –> Your Passion Here <–


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Here’s the bottom line 

If you want to find your passion, you need to reconnect with your emotions.

Naturally, you’re not going to allow yourself to feel anything until you feel safe: Safe to feel; safe to breathe; safe to move around in the world.

If you’re like most people, you have no idea what it feels like to feel safe – which is why feeling your feelings seems so scary, because an emotionally shut-down person figures feelings = pain. Who wants that?

The thing is, your range of emotions also includes love, joy, and peace. None of these blessings can touch you until you awaken your emotions again.

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Want some help with that?

  • Would you like your Higher Power to show you why it is safe for you to feel safe now?
  • Would you like to know what it feels like to feel safe in your body … in your life … in the world around you?
  • Would you like to know why it is safe for you, and safe for others, for you to feel your feelings now?
  • Would you like to know how to confidently handle your feelings now?

If you would like these healing downloads, please say “Yes” out loud now.

Imagine brilliant white light shining down through your crown chakra and filling your body.

Notice how you feel.

Good job! Thank you!

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

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Would you like to experience more healings to help you find your passion?

If so, please join us for the FREE “Find Your Passion” healing circle on Tuesday, February 13, 2018.

We meet at 5 p.m. Pacific Time online and by phone, so you can hang out with us from anywhere in the world … and I would love it if you do.

In this 30-minute healing meditation, you will:

  • Discover your passion so you can experience more freedom, fun, and fulfillment right away
  • Gain clarity about your passion so you can take steps to add more joy to your daily life
  • Connect with the gifts your soul came here to share, so your life takes on greater depth and meaning

If you can’t make the live call, sign up anyway so you can get a link to the limited-time replay.

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To get the most out of the “Find Your Passion” healing circle, please take a moment to answer the questions on the registration form. Not a requirement – just a suggestion to enrich your experience.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, my dear friend.
May this month bring all you desire – and more. You deserve it.
In the meantime, wishing you a delightful day!

Up, Up and Away

What makes your heart soar?

Young Derek loves Superman comics, movies and TV shows. He’s so crazy about the Man of Steel, he wants to BE Superman.

One of Superman’s coolest powers is that he can fly … so Derek decides he will fly, too.

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He climbs up on the roof, secures his Superman cape (one of Mom’s faded gym towels) and dives into the air, aiming for the big oak tree across the street.

He plops into the hydrangea bush just below his jumping-off point.

Derek’s mother, Susan, glimpses his plunge from the window in her home office. She jumps up and runs into the yard at warp speed to check on her boy.

Susan finds Derek cradled in the bush, more shaken than hurt.

“Honey, what happened? You’re bleeding!”

“I’m the Man of Steel, Mom,” Derek explains. “What’s the big deal about a few scratches? Get me out of here so I can try it again.”

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“Forget it, kiddo. I thought a young man of 7 would have more sense than to jump off a roof, but I guess not.”

Susan checks Derek for bruises and finds none. She extracts him from the bush and sends him into the house to wash, breathing deeply to keep herself from screaming at her son.

“It’s a time-out for you, after you clean up. I want you to think about what you’ve done.”

Moments later, sitting in a corner facing the wall, Derek tries to figure out what went wrong, using one of his real-life superpowers – intelligence.

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“Why didn’t I fly?”

“Is it because I’m a loser, like Tommy said the other day when he beat me up and took my lunch money? No, that’s not it. Tommy is a bully. He’s the loser, not me.

“Is it because I don’t deserve to fly? I don’t see a connection there. What does being deserving have to do with being able to fly?

“Is it because I forgot something? I had everything … no. Wait. I forgot Superman is from Krypton. That’s why he can fly. And I’m from Earth … so … I guess I can’t fly, after all.

“But I want to fly more than anything. I can see myself flying, in my mind. It’s so clear. If I could just draw it, maybe I could …”

“Okay, Derek, time’s up! Did you think about what you did?”

“Yeah, Mom. Do we have anything to draw with, around here?”

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Fast-forward 15 years

Derek sits beaming at his booth at Comic-Con, where hundreds of fans have lined up to meet him – the   world-famous creator of “Dynamic Derek – Boy Genius” comics.

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Much as he loves creating superheroes for DC Comics, his biggest thrill comes from seeing all the boys and girls who love Dynamic Derek.

Knowing he’s inspired them fills Derek with awe and gratitude. It makes his heart soar higher than Superman ever thought of flying.

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Would you like to be like Derek …

Setting aside limiting beliefs like “I’m a loser” or “I’m not worthy,” so you can focus on doing what makes your heart soar?

It can be hard to get out of your own way all by yourself.

The good news is, you don’t have to.

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Come and join this month’s FREE “Fresh Start Healing Circle” to get support in moving forward with clarity and confidence.

In our 30-minute guided meditation, you will:

  • Gently release regrets about the past, while deepening the wisdom you’ve gained
  • Ease your anxiety about the future, so you can take action with confidence and joy
  • Strengthen your self-confidence so you can trust yourself to make good choices as you move forward

Sign up now to get:

  1. Convenient reminders so you won’t miss out
  2. Replay links, so you can gain new insights every time you listen
  3. The power-packed Fresh Start Cheat Sheet, loaded with practical tips you can use right away – or print up and keep handy for when you’re ready to make your move!

Hope to see you there, my dear!

In the meantime, may the New Year bring all you desire – and more! You deserve it.

What makes your heart soar? Please share your thoughts in the comment box below. Thank you!