One Way Clarity Makes Your Life Easier

If indecision keeps you stuck, check this out

Wouldn’t it be great if you could make up your mind about the important stuff – like your work, your purpose, or your relationship – with ease and grace?

Clarity makes that possible.

First, let’s get clear about what clarity is.

It’s knowing:

  • What you want to be
  • What you want to do
  • What you want to have

When you have clarity, your life gets easier right away because …

Decisions become a no-brainer

confidence andre-hunter-62014When you know what you want to be, do, and have, you can examine every choice through the lens of: “Does this option take me closer to, or further from, what I want?”

If it takes you further from what you want, you say “No” to that choice.

If it takes you closer to what you want, you say “Yes” to that choice.

If you’re not sure, flip a coin – heads for Yes, tails for No.

Whichever way you hope the coin comes up, you have your answer.

Your hope reveals what you truly want.

Choose what you want with confidence, knowing that it wants you as much as you want it.confidence psychology-2647941_1280Would you like to find your way to clarity now?

It can be hard to clear the clouds of confusion and doubt all by yourself.

The good news is, you don’t have to.

Join tonight’s FREE “Get Clarity” Healing Circle to get support in finding out what you want to be, do and have – so you can start walking toward the life calling out to you.

We meet tonight at 5 p.m. Pacific Time online and by phone, so you can join us from anywhere in the world … and I would love it if you do.

Can’t make it tonight? Sign up anyway to get access to the replay

 

 

Healing Circle warren-wong-323107-unsplashIn our 30-minute guided meditation, you will:

  • Discover why you’ve felt confused about what you want – and clear it up
  • Release unconscious beliefs like “I can never have what I want” and “If I know what I want I’ll have to do something about it,” which block clarity from coming to you
  • Gain a new understanding of what is possible for you, so you can get out of your own way and get on with creating the richly fulfilling life you deserve

Whether you listen live or later, this healing circle will help you find your way to the clarity that makes indecision a thing of the past.

Sign up here to join tonight’s FREE healing circle.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, my dear friend.

May this day bring you many delightful surprises!

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Video: 5 Ways to Dodge Debt Over the Holidays

If you tend to overspend on the holidays, check this out.

 

Video: 6 Ways to Sidestep Holiday Fatigue

Feeling too pooped out to party? Check this out!

If you were tired going into the holiday season, you may be running on fumes right now.

You are not alone.

Help is here:

If you want more support to survive the holidays, check this out.

In the meantime, wishing you a joyful holiday season, however you spend it.

Much love and many blessings to you!

5 Ways to Dodge Debt Over the Holidays

Try these tips if you’re dreading the mountain of holiday debt you’ll have to climb next month.

Here’s the bottom line:

No one is going to take you by the hand and say, “Hey, you’re spending more than you can afford. Are you sure you want to do this?”

So, if you want to avoid a hangover of holiday debt in January, it pays to pause for a moment before buying into beliefs like: “I have to buy these gifts, even though I can’t afford them.”

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If in doubt, remember this: You are allowed to consider your financial well-being when making out your holiday gift list. Your needs matter just as much as the needs of your loved ones.

Try these 5 tips if you’re dreading the mountain of holiday debt you’ll have to climb next month.

  1. Step back from sacrifice

If you’re low on cash, reconsider giving expensive gifts to those you love. 

Anyone who truly loves you would never dream of asking you to give up necessities so they can have luxuries. Only people who are out for themselves would do that.

Would you like your Higher Power to show you all the other ways to show your love besides financial self-sacrifice?

If so, please say “Yes” out loud now.

Imagine light shining from the center of your heart. Let it beam up into your brain and fill it with ideas for showing love to your loved ones.

Note down any ideas that come up. Make those ideas the basis of your gift list.

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2. Bail on bribery

If your bankroll is getting small, reconsider giving lavish gifts to those whose love or approval you are trying to win.

Love and approval that can be bought rarely lasts. The debt you accrue will hang on, piling up interest, until it’s paid.

Would you like your Higher Power to show you all the other ways to gain love and approval besides trying to buy it?

If so, please say “Yes” out loud now.

Picture light coming down through the top of your head and filling every cell of your body with warm, loving illumination.

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Note down any ideas that come to mind. Keep them handy.

3. Lift the burden

If your loved ones are struggling financially, like you, consider suggesting everyone can exchange greeting cards instead of gifts.

Imagine the rejoicing if you let your loved ones off the hook from having to spend money they haven’t got. What a priceless gift!

Would you like your Higher Power to show you all the ways to have a wonderful holiday besides overspending?

If so, please say “Yes” out loud now.

Breathe in pure white light. If you don’t know how, just pretend you’re breathing in white light.

Breathe out white light, allowing it to carry away all your woes and worries. Imagine them floating away, like balloons soaring into the sky.

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Picture the worries being replaced by whatever you want and need most. Sense your muscles relaxing into allowing your needs to be met now.

4. Keep it simple

If you feel you must give something, consider giving simple gifts like these:

Make gifts by hand: Bake sugar cookies and decorate them. Knit a scarf. Make chocolates, scrapbooks, tamales, candles, gingerbread houses, latkes … use your imagination.

Give of yourself: Offer to clean out a closet, organize a junk drawer, catch up over lunch, set up a smartphone … notice what needs to be done, and offer to do it.

Donate: Give money to your loved ones’ favorite charity: Red Cross, cancer research, animal shelter – whatever cause is close to their heart. You will spread love and light to all those touched by your generosity, even if it’s just a few dollars. You never know what will make a difference.

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5. Reconnect with the Spirit of the Season

Whatever you give, give it with love.

As you fill out your cards, place each card between your hands and bless it. Bless the one who will receive it. The recipient will feel your love, and that is the greatest gift of all.

As you wrap your gifts, take each present in your hands and bless it. Bless the one who will receive it. The person you give it to will feel your love, and both of you will be blessed.

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I hope you find these tips helpful, my dear! If so, would you kindly share them with your friends? Thank you!

We’ll see you next week with some tips to help you handle feelings of grief and loss that feel sharper during the holidays.

Get More Help Surviving the Holidays at www.AbundanceHealingCircle.com

In the meantime …

Happy Holidays to You and Yours!

 

Video: How to Super-Size Your Stress Over the Holidays

You may be making your holiday stress worse, without realizing it. Watch this to find out how to ease up on yourself.

If the holidays stress you out, you are not alone.

Help is here:

If you want more support to survive the holidays, check this out.

In the meantime, wishing you a joyful holiday season, however you spend it.

Much love and many blessings to you!

Do the Holidays Make You Crazy?

“I have to do everything myself!”

“Every time I do something to help, you tell me I’m doing it wrong.”

“That’s because you are doing it wrong, you idiot – so, I have to do everything myself!”

It’s crazy …

The way a time of year that’s supposed to be all about light and love can so easily turn into a series of battles …

Battles inside of you, where you’re fighting exhaustion and frustration…

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And battles outside of you, where you’re fighting with loved ones, long lines everywhere, and holiday helpers who, frankly, are not helpful.

Holiday warmth and cheer get lost along the way.

Where’s the joy in that?

Stress about the holiday season can suck the light and love right out of it.

If you would like to feel less crazy and more peaceful, join “Holiday Stress Relief Here and Now.”

This free healing circle has been created to help you gently release painful memories of past holidays and ease anxiety about upcoming festivities.

In this 30-minute guided meditation we will:

  • Unwind the tension you’ve been holding in your body, so you can feel re-energized
  • Ease the emotional pressure you have placed on yourself, so you can feel more peaceful AND get more done
  • Guide you to easily and naturally connect with the joy within you – however hidden it appears to be

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We meet online, so you can join us from anywhere in the world.

If relieving holiday stress sounds good to you, click on this link to register for the free online healing circle on Tuesday December 5.

If you can’t make the live call, go ahead and register anyway so you can get a link to the limited-time replay AND …

Holiday bonus: If you sign up for the healing circle, you will receive a handy-dandy printable “Holiday Stress Relief” cheat sheet to help you survive the holidays with ease and grace.

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To get the most out of “Holiday Stress Relief Here and Now,” please take a moment to answer the questions on the registration form. Not a requirement – just a suggestion to enrich your experience.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, my dear friend. May the holidays bring all you desire – and more. You deserve it.

In the meantime, sending you love and light!

Video: How to Have a Terrible Time at a Family Gathering

If you want to take the torture out of family gatherings, try these tips

You are not alone in your anxiety about spending time with your family over the holidays.

Help is here.

If you want more support to survive the holidays, check this out.

In the meantime, wishing you a fabulous Thanksgiving, however you spend it.

Whether you celebrate Thanksgiving or not – I am thankful for YOU!