Who Screwed Up Your Abundance?

Why do long-desired blessings show up – and then vanish?

With all your struggles, your prayers, your achievements, your unmet needs …

Why haven’t you gotten any closer to the rich and fulfilling life you yearn for, deep in your heart?

Good question!

  • Is it because you screwed up?
  • Is it because your parents screwed you up?
  • Is it because the Universe screwed up?

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Consider this

If you can only have the blessings you are willing to receive … and that’s pretty much how the Universe rolls … it would explain a lot, wouldn’t it?

  • Why a financial windfall shows up, then slips through your fingers before you know it
  • Why you have a wonderful first date with someone special – who never contacts you again
  • Why you ace an interview for your dream job, only to find out it’s given to someone else less qualified than you

Look, situations like these are not your fault.

It may be that having “more than you deserve” – whatever that means to you – violates your innate sense of fairness.

In response, you unconsciously block “too much good” so Divine Order can be maintained – and the blessing vanishes.

We all know how painful that can be!

Would you like to stop doing that now? Self Worth Here and Now

Get help with clearing your Abundance-blocking beliefs at the September Abundance Healing Circle: “Self-Worth Here and Now.”

You are lovingly invited to join this gathering online on Tuesday Sept. 12 at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time.

You will walk away from this inspiring and interactive gathering with a firm foundation for:

  • Authentic self-confidence that empowers you to trust yourself to handle the wonderful people and exciting opportunities attracted by the glowing charisma that confidence gives you
  • Deeply rooted self-respect that allows you to set healthy boundaries, so you have the time, energy and focus needed to move toward the greatness waiting to meet you
  • Heartfelt self-compassion that lets you see missteps as bumps in the road, rather than the end of the road, so you can stay motivated to find the Abundance that wants to find you

If this sounds good to you, click on this link for more info.

I hope to see you there, my dear!

Have you had a long-desired blessing come into your life, only to vanish – and you could never figure out why? Please share your thoughts in the comment box, if that feels right to you.

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Do You Sabotage Your Abundance Without Knowing It?

Sneaky subconscious beliefs can keep you struggling

Click here to listen to this Abundance Activation

Feeling unworthy is like putting a huge obstacle into the God force, into the life force which is everywhere. – Wayne Dyer

Here’s the thing:

Even if you think you’re worthy of Abundance …

Even if you believe, with every fiber of your being, that you deserve lasting love and permanent prosperity …

Only when you FEEL worthy of the good things in life will you match the energetic frequency in which Abundance dwells and thereby draw more blessings into your life.

Why is that? 

  • Thoughts make up about 5% of your consciousness
  • Emotional energy makes up the other 95%

Given that 95% is way more than 5%, does it make sense that your emotional energy determines whether you manifest more Abundance in your life? Gap by-tommy-lisbin-316755

There is a huge gap between thinking you deserve good things and feeling you deserve good things.

That gap makes the difference as to whether you experience poverty or prosperity; loneliness or love; frustration or fulfillment.

Are you stuck in that gap? 

Here are four signs of hidden unworthiness blocking your Abundance:

  1. You brush off compliments with “It was nothing” or “You’re only saying that because you’re my sister” (or mother, brother, husband, or best friend)
  2. You refuse a friendly offer to hold the door open when your hands are full
  3. You say “Yes” to unreasonable demands because even the idea of saying “No” scares you
  4. You pretend something is okay when it is So. Not. Okay.

Do any of these situations seem familiar to you? Each one indicates an underlying sense of unworthiness.

As Wayne Dyer notes, feeling unworthy is like putting a huge obstacle into the God force.

Ready to get unstuck? Golden Light_dev-benjamin-222588

Would you like your Higher Power to release your unconscious obstacles to Abundance now …

In ways that feel safe and comfortable to you …

And replace them with Abundance-attracting thoughts, feelings and beliefs that feel completely authentic and natural to you?

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart … and imagine crystalline white light streaming across your third, fourth, fifth and sixth dimensional bodies … leaving behind shimmering pink-gold light.

Very good!

By doing this process, you’re bringing more Abundance to yourself – and everyone else, as well, because we are all One. Bless you!

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week – and celebrate it!

If you liked this process, you can experience dozens of similar healings in our upcoming Abundance Healing Circle – “Self-Worth Here and Now

Will you join us? Self Worth Here and Now

We meet live online Tuesday Sept. 12 at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time – and you will receive an MP3 download of the circle, in case you can’t attend in person.

Thank you for the opportunity to be of service to you today. You grace me.

Much love and many blessings to you!

Would you like more quick, loving healings like this? Get more info here.

Looking back, can you see any occasions when you turned away from love, success, fame, fortune, or perfect health because it felt like too much, or you didn’t feel ready?

Me, too.

If you like, please share in the comment box below. Thank you!

Why is it Hard to Attract Abundance?

When you feel deserving, attracting Abundance gets easier

Grainds of Sand by-evan-kirby-263915Here’s the deal:

You can keep on trying squeeze a few grains of Abundance from the iron grip of a stingy Universe, if you believe that’s what it takes.

But until you feel you deserve to have what you want, you’re going to expend a gigantic amount of energy for teeny-tiny results.

I hate that whole “Tons of Effort for Zero Results” thing. How about you?

You can only experience as much Abundance as you feel worthy of receiving. No more and no less.

The Universe’s allotment of Abundance may seem random, yet it is precise in giving exactly as much as you feel worthy of receiving.

If you want to recognize your true (Infinite!) worth so you can attract more Abundance, you are lovingly invited to join the September Abundance Healing Circle: “Self-Worth Here and Now.

You will walk away from this inspiring and interactive gathering with a firm foundation for:

  • Authentic self-confidence that empowers you to trust yourself to handle the wonderful people and exciting opportunities attracted by the glowing charisma that confidence gives you
  • Deeply rooted self-respect that allows you to set healthy boundaries, so you have the time, energy and focus needed to move toward the greatness waiting to meet you
  • Heartfelt self-compassion that lets you see missteps as bumps in the road, rather than the end of the road, so you can stay motivated to find the Abundance that wants to find you

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If this sounds good to you, please join us live online or by phone on Tuesday September 12 at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time.

Can’t make the live gathering? Sign up anyway to get the MP3 download of this virtual healing circle. Listening to the recording brings you smokin-hot fresh insights every time you listen.

If you are so over the roller-coaster ride of emotional uncertainty, financial insecurity and frustratingly unfulfilling work – this Abundance Healing Circle is for you.

Ch-ch-ch-ch-changes

Going with the flow helps you cope with life’s surprises

An ancient Hebrew proverb tells us,

Change takes but an instant. It’s the resistance to change that can take a lifetime.

Life by its very nature is a dynamic process, constantly changing.

For instance, millions of cells in your body have died and been replaced since you began reading this post.

Even if we resist change, it will happen anyway – sometimes painfully.

Here’s the weird part: Most of our pain comes from our resistance to change, the part of us that yells, “No! This should not be happening!” – rather than the change itself.

Would you like to change that?

If we allow change without resisting it, we’re swept up in what psychologists call a Flow state – surfing the tide of life with confidence and faith.

Would you like to know how to surf in the flow of life? If so, say “Yes” out loud right now* and feel the energy flowing in through the top of your head.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week. And celebrate it!

That’s your Abundance Activation for today. Enjoy!

If you would like more simple yet powerful healings like these, check this out.

* Seriously. This energetic download will only happen with your verbal permission, because we honor your free will. If you want it, say “Yes.”

What have you done to cope with unexpected changes? Care to share below?

Would you rather be right, or be happy?

The high cost of saying “I told you so”

Click here to listen to this Abundance Activation

It feels so good when you’re right, doesn’t it?

Cynthia knows that feeling well.

She saved her daughter Heather from pulling a prank that might have cost her the chance to get into a good college.

She saved her husband Tom from asking his boss for a raise at the wrong time

She saved her colleagues from turning in a report with incorrect data that would have cost the company thousands of dollars.

She’s Wonder Woman, right?

With a track record like that, you would think Cynthia would be a happy woman.

Yet, she feels drained from putting out fires for other people. While her family and co-workers rely on her, Cynthia senses they don’t like her very much, and that hurts. Where is their gratitude for her efforts on their behalf?

In fact, their gratitude melts away in the heat of shame when Cynthia reminds them, with a look or a word, “I told you so.”

It’s hard to love someone who would rather be right than care about how stupid you feel when she puts you in the wrong.

The heart of the matter

In her heart, Cynthia worries that if her loved ones trust themselves more and rely on her less, they won’t love or need her anymore. So, she tries to make herself indispensable, and only exhausts herself in the process.

I have done that. How about you?

If so, would you like your Higher Power to:

  • Show you why you are lovable and valuable just as you are right now
  • Reveal why your life has meaning and purpose exactly as it is right now
  • Fill your heart with all the love you ever wanted and never got
  • Unwind your attachment to rightness and replace it with lovingkindness
  • Show you who you are and how to live your life knowing you matter, just like everyone else

If so, please say “Yes” out loud or in your heart now, and feel the light of love gently shining on every cell in your body.

Very good!

Notice how you feel.

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If this Abundance Activation helped you in any way, you are lovingly invited to join the Abundance Healing Circle “Happiness Here and Now,” where you will experience many awakenings like these on Tuesday August 8.

Click here for details and registration for this powerful and empowering online event.

In the meantime, thank you for allowing me to support you a little bit today. Wishing you all the best. You deserve it!

Where do you need support right now? Please share your thoughts below. I care.

 

The #1 Cause of Stress and Suffering

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Do any of these thoughts sound familiar?

“If he cared about me, he would show up on time!”

“What idiot is holding up the traffic? I’m running late! Get moving, people!”

“Another night in front of the TV with a microwaved dinner … I am so lame …”

Thoughts like these may arise from different situations, but they have one thing in common:

They spring from an unconscious bedrock belief called “Something is Wrong.” 

Because this belief is rooted in nothing real, it creates so much free-floating anxiety that even the tiniest bump in the road triggers your brain’s stress response; and leaves you suffering from exhaustion, irritability, and resentment that life is so freaking hard.

We can start healing your body, mind, heart and soul from the effects of stress and suffering right now, if you wish.

Would like your Higher Power to …

  • Show you the true nature and purpose of life, so you can peacefully release your resistance to it
  • Help you understand why things happen, in a way that makes sense to you
  • Reveal the blessings available to you in every moment
  • Show you what happiness looks like, sounds like, tastes like, and feels like
  • Illuminate your understanding of why you are safe, worthy and ready to touch happiness right now

If so, please say “Yes” out loud now and sense light awakening in every cell of your body and spreading out beyond your skin to the farthest reaches of the galaxy.

Very good!

Notice how you feel.

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relaxation-cool-water-haley-phelps-119782If healings like these help you feel better, you are lovingly invited to join the Abundance Healing Circle “Happiness Here and Now,” where you will experience many such healings.

In this highly interactive online Abundance class, we will do live healings to:

  • Transform the love/hate relationship with life that keeps you stressed and suffering
  • Release the burden of your judgments against yourself and others, so you can easily make a fresh start
  • Set you up for success with a simple, do-able Abundance Activity you can use to continue increasing your happiness

Let’s just imagine …

How much peace of mind will you enjoy when you stop fighting life and feel how much life loves you?

How fulfilled will you feel when your relationships smooth out and become more harmonious?

What new adventures await you as you decide to live your life full-out?

Join our Abundance Healing Circle on August 8 and find out! I would love it if you joined us.

In addition, to support you as we go into deep waters, you will receive a special rate on private sessions with me.

If this sounds good to you, click here for more details and registration.

In the meantime, much love and many blessings to you!

 

Want to feel happier right now?

You are always just one thought away from joy

Click here to listen to this Abundance Activation 

While you may want to be happy, another part of you may believe desiring happiness is frivolous or selfish when there is so much suffering in the world.

Yet because we all stand united in Collective Consciousness or the Quantum Field or Divine Mind – whatever you call it – the happiness of one increases the happiness of all. A rising tide of joy lifts all boats.

Finding and following your bliss, then, makes the world a better place for everyone.

Let’s take a look at how happiness works

  • Cathy felt sure she would be happy, if only Bob would fall in love with her.
  • One night, Bob tenderly held Cathy in his arms and said, “I love you.”
  • After her initial burst of joy, Cathy decided she would be happy if only Bob asked her to marry him.
  • Bob soon proposed, and Cathy was thrilled until she started thinking she would be happy if only Bob took her to Paris for their honeymoon.
  • In Paris, Cathy had a wonderful honeymoon until she started thinking she would be happy if only …

And on it went, with Cathy growing increasingly dissatisfied and confused. Why was it that, even when she got what she wanted, it never made her happy for more than five minutes?

What is up with that?

As Dale Carnegie reminds us, “It isn’t what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about.”

You can have more happiness in your life today, simply by shifting the direction of your thoughts toward the present.

For instance, you could choose to enjoy life’s simple pleasures right now, instead of holding your happiness hostage to the fulfillment of dreams that may or may not come true.

As we see with Cathy and her falling in love and honeymooning in Paris, the ego-mind takes only a moment to skip from “Yay! I got what I wanted!” to “But what I really want now is …”

The ego-mind dreams up reasons for discontent to direct your focus toward the past or the future because joy can only exist in the present. If you’re happy, you might forget to be afraid; then the ego-mind would lose its dominance over you, which it dreads above all things.

Take back your power

You can short-circuit the ego-mind’s joy-killing process by pausing to enjoy what is in front of you right now. coffee love

Savor the aroma of your coffee. Snuggle into a comfy chair. Give your loved ones caring attention when they tell you about their day.

Let small pleasures like these be happiness enough for the moment, which is all we ever have.

Would you would like to start enjoying the good things in your life here and now? We can do that right now, if you wish.

Instant Healing

Would you like your Higher Power to show you:

  • Why you matter, and why your happiness matters
  • One wonderful thing in your life that can delight you right now
  • How to see a situation that has been bothering you in a new light that inspires you
  • How to see yourself and others with the eyes of unconditional love and acceptance
  • A preview of a blessing coming your way that is ten times better than what you’ve been hoping for

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart … and sense Limitless Love igniting the nucleus of every atom in your field of consciousness.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week – and celebrate it! If it feels right, tell me about it in an email.

Thank you so much for the opportunity to be of service to you today.

Much love and many blessings to you!

If you would like to experience more fast, powerful healings like these, check this out.

What is one thing that gives you joy? Please share your thoughts in “Comments” below.