Confidence is Sexy

Confidence draws people like catnip

Confidence is sexy. Magnetic.
It attracts soulmates who adore you …
Friends who love and support you and your dreams …
Clients who believe in you, respect you and brag about you to their friends …
Even success itself.
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You know how vital confidence is for success in any area of your life, so …
  • You give yourself pep talks
  • You plaster your walls with vision boards and inspiring quotes
  • You visualize your goals until you’re cross-eyed
And yet, confidence eludes you … and so do your dreams, left to languish in the “it might have been” swamp of shame and regret.
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Want some help with that?
Let the FREE healing circle “Feel Confident Here and Now” help you develop faith in yourself.
If you think it’s time you started moving in the direction of your dreams – join us!
In this 30-minute guided meditation, you will:
  • Discover how to build emotional confidence and keep it strong
  • Release unconscious beliefs like “I am not enough” and “There is something wrong with me,” which defeat you before you start
  • Gain a new understanding of how gifted and powerful you really are so you can start attracting the great people and marvelous opportunities that have been waiting to meet you
If this sounds good to you, click on this link to register for this free healing meditation.
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You are a blessing to all of us, my dear. Please consider sharing yourself and your one-of-a-kind gifts. They are needed. You are needed.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, my friend.
I hope to see you in our healing circle.
In the meantime, wishing you a wonderful day!
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The #1 Way You Sabotage Yourself

When you stop doing this, amazing things can happen

When Sean turns six years old, he begs for piano lessons.

His father George agrees to hire a teacher on a trial basis for one month.

George listens in as Sean’s fingers touch the keys and slowly play “Chopsticks.”

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When Sean hits a sour note, his father winces. “Can’t even play ‘Chopsticks,’ George mutters to himself. “This will be a waste of money.”

The piano teacher, Mrs. Jones, tells Sean’s parents he had great potential. Sean’s mother Amy agrees to pay for her son’s lessons when George says he will fire Mrs. Jones after her month’s trial has ended.

—–>>> Flash forward to Sean at 18

“Dad, I’ve been accepted into Juilliard!” Sean whoops, waving the letter of acceptance at George.

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“What?! You can’t expect me to pay for that!” George roars.

“You don’t have to! I’ve been given a full scholarship, Dad – you don’t have to pay a dime!” Sean takes his father’s hands as if to lift him up and dance him around the room.

George stays glued to his seat. “What’s the matter with those Juilliard people?” he growls. “Since when do they give out scholarships to kids who can’t even play ‘Chopsticks’?”

—–>>> Flash forward to Sean at 36

“Dad, I just had to tell you the wonderful news!” Sean shouts into his phone. “My opera won the Pulitzer Prize!”

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“No way!” George snarls. “They must have really lowered their standards, giving out Pulitzers to kids who can’t play ‘Chopsticks.’”

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What do you think about a father like George, who keeps throwing Sean’s youthful errors into his face?

Do you think George believes shaming Sean has spurred him to greater heights of accomplishment?

Do you think Sean would achieve less or more if he had his father’s support?

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Do you talk to yourself the way George talks to Sean?

This is the #1 way you sabotage yourself

When you shame yourself, confidence and motivation jump out the window. Inspiration drains away. A part of you dies.

Do you think you would accomplish less or more if you stopped shaming yourself over mistakes you made years ago – or five minutes ago?

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Would you like to stop shaming yourself now?

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart now.

Inhale, taking a deep breath. Imagine pure white light filling the center of your mind, the center of your heart and the base of your spine.

Exhale, imagining the white light spreading out to fill your entire body, being, and field of consciousness.

Good!

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If you would like more help letting go of the self-shaming that sabotages you, let the FREE healing circle “Feel Confident Here and Now” support you in becoming more supportive of yourself, your dreams and your goals.

We meet online and by phone at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time on Tuesday, April 10, so you can join us from anywhere in the world.

In this 30-minute guided meditation, you will:

  • Discover how to build emotional confidence and keep it strong
  • Release unconscious beliefs like “I am not enough” and “There is something wrong with me,” which defeat you before you start
  • Gain a new understanding of how gifted and powerful you really are so you can start attracting the great people and marvelous opportunities that have been waiting to meet you

If this sounds good to you, click on this link to register for this free healing meditation.

Can’t make the live call? Register anyway to get free access to the limited-time replay. The healings work just as well whether you listen live or later.

Hope to see you there, my dear friend!

 

One Way Clarity Makes Your Life Easier

If indecision keeps you stuck, check this out

Wouldn’t it be great if you could make up your mind about the important stuff – like your work, your purpose, or your relationship – with ease and grace?

Clarity makes that possible.

First, let’s get clear about what clarity is.

It’s knowing:

  • What you want to be
  • What you want to do
  • What you want to have

When you have clarity, your life gets easier right away because …

Decisions become a no-brainer

confidence andre-hunter-62014When you know what you want to be, do, and have, you can examine every choice through the lens of: “Does this option take me closer to, or further from, what I want?”

If it takes you further from what you want, you say “No” to that choice.

If it takes you closer to what you want, you say “Yes” to that choice.

If you’re not sure, flip a coin – heads for Yes, tails for No.

Whichever way you hope the coin comes up, you have your answer.

Your hope reveals what you truly want.

Choose what you want with confidence, knowing that it wants you as much as you want it.confidence psychology-2647941_1280Would you like to find your way to clarity now?

It can be hard to clear the clouds of confusion and doubt all by yourself.

The good news is, you don’t have to.

Join tonight’s FREE “Get Clarity” Healing Circle to get support in finding out what you want to be, do and have – so you can start walking toward the life calling out to you.

We meet tonight at 5 p.m. Pacific Time online and by phone, so you can join us from anywhere in the world … and I would love it if you do.

Can’t make it tonight? Sign up anyway to get access to the replay

 

 

Healing Circle warren-wong-323107-unsplashIn our 30-minute guided meditation, you will:

  • Discover why you’ve felt confused about what you want – and clear it up
  • Release unconscious beliefs like “I can never have what I want” and “If I know what I want I’ll have to do something about it,” which block clarity from coming to you
  • Gain a new understanding of what is possible for you, so you can get out of your own way and get on with creating the richly fulfilling life you deserve

Whether you listen live or later, this healing circle will help you find your way to the clarity that makes indecision a thing of the past.

Sign up here to join tonight’s FREE healing circle.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, my dear friend.

May this day bring you many delightful surprises!

Reason #1 Why It’s Hard to Get Clarity

You lose touch with yourself when you lose sight of your dreams

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

It can be hard to have clarity if part of you believes clarity is a really bad idea.

If you tend to feel confused about what you want or how to get it, chances are you have unconscious beliefs blocking your ability to set and reach goals that are meaningful to you.

It’s not your fault

If you’re like most people, you grew up hearing “No!” a lot – from parents, teachers, big brothers and other authority figures.

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Maybe you stopped asking for what you want because you knew your request would be refused – so why bother to ask?

Maybe you even pretended you didn’t want anything, to avoid the pain and shame of yet another “No.”

Repressing desires that you feel sure will go unsatisfied is a normal way of protecting yourself from disappointment.

The downside: you lose yourself when you lose touch with your dreams and desires.

So, if you have trouble getting clear about your dreams or goals, it may be because a very strong, smart, loving part of you believes that if you get clarity, something bad will happen.

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Here’s the bottom line

It’s impossible to create a fulfilling life unless you know what fulfills you.

This involves knowing what you want, need, and value – the first step to turning your dreams into your reality.

Part of you already knows. More clarity will come when confusion stops serving you.

You see, getting clarity can seem scary if your wounded inner child believes clarity = disappointment, rejection, or shame. What sane person wants that?

So, none of your blocks to clarity will go away until your unconscious mind believes it is safe for you to know what you want and how to get it.

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Want some help with that?

  • Would you like your Higher Power to show you why it is safe for you to have clarity now?
  • Would you like to know what will happen if you have clarity, in relation to what you have imagined would happen?
  • Would you like to know why it is safe for you, and safe for others, for you to know and reach for your dreams now?
  • Would you like to know how to confidently take the next step now?

If you would like these healing downloads, please say “Yes” out loud now.

Imagine shimmering rainbow light shining down through the top of your head and filling your body.

Notice how you feel.

Good job! Thank you!

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

Would you like to get clarity, so you can start creating a richly fulfilling life, one inspired step at a time?

It can be hard to lift away your blocks to clarity all by yourself.

The good news is, you don’t have to.

If you would like to experience more healings, please join us for the FREE “Get Clarity Here and Now” healing circle on Tuesday, March 13, 2018.

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We meet at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time online and by phone, so you can join us from anywhere in the world … and I would love it if you do.

In this 30-minute healing meditation, you will:

  • Discover why you have felt confused about what you want – and clear it up
  • Release unconscious beliefs like “I can never have what I want” and “If I know what I want I’ll have to do something about it,” which block clarity from coming to you
  • Gain a new understanding of what is possible for you so you can get on with creating the richly fulfilling life you deserve

Can’t make the live call? Sign up anyway to get access to the limited-time replay.

If you are DONE with floundering and flopping your way through life, check out this healing circle. You never know. One idea could change your life.

 

 

 

[Video] 3 Cool Ways to Find Your Passion

When you connect with your passion, you connect with your true self

Life without passion feels dry and flat.

Life with passion feels juicy and rich.

When you connect with your passion, you connect with your true self … your aliveness … your joy.

If you’ve been feeling discouraged or flat lately, try one of these 3 cool ways to connect with your passion.

Reason #1 Why It’s Hard to Find Your Passion

If you feel bored or flat most of the time, check this out

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

It can be hard to find your passion if nothing arouses your interest for more than five minutes or so.

If you tend to feel bored, flat, or numb most of the time, chances are you’re emotionally shut down.
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It’s not your fault 

If you’re like most people, you have suffered more pain in your life than you can handle.

To survive, you deadened your emotions so you could function in your daily life.

An emotional shutdown is a normal self-protective practice – until it takes over the shop, when that numbness armors you against joy and love, as well as pain because you can’t feel anything.

So, if you can’t find your passion, it may be because you’ve lost touch with your feelings. Strong emotion is what signals –> Your Passion Here <–


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Here’s the bottom line 

If you want to find your passion, you need to reconnect with your emotions.

Naturally, you’re not going to allow yourself to feel anything until you feel safe: Safe to feel; safe to breathe; safe to move around in the world.

If you’re like most people, you have no idea what it feels like to feel safe – which is why feeling your feelings seems so scary, because an emotionally shut-down person figures feelings = pain. Who wants that?

The thing is, your range of emotions also includes love, joy, and peace. None of these blessings can touch you until you awaken your emotions again.

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Want some help with that?

  • Would you like your Higher Power to show you why it is safe for you to feel safe now?
  • Would you like to know what it feels like to feel safe in your body … in your life … in the world around you?
  • Would you like to know why it is safe for you, and safe for others, for you to feel your feelings now?
  • Would you like to know how to confidently handle your feelings now?

If you would like these healing downloads, please say “Yes” out loud now.

Imagine brilliant white light shining down through your crown chakra and filling your body.

Notice how you feel.

Good job! Thank you!

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

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Would you like to experience more healings to help you find your passion?

If so, please join us for the FREE “Find Your Passion” healing circle on Tuesday, February 13, 2018.

We meet at 5 p.m. Pacific Time online and by phone, so you can hang out with us from anywhere in the world … and I would love it if you do.

In this 30-minute healing meditation, you will:

  • Discover your passion so you can experience more freedom, fun, and fulfillment right away
  • Gain clarity about your passion so you can take steps to add more joy to your daily life
  • Connect with the gifts your soul came here to share, so your life takes on greater depth and meaning

If you can’t make the live call, sign up anyway so you can get a link to the limited-time replay.

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To get the most out of the “Find Your Passion” healing circle, please take a moment to answer the questions on the registration form. Not a requirement – just a suggestion to enrich your experience.
Thank you for taking the time to read this, my dear friend.
May this month bring all you desire – and more. You deserve it.
In the meantime, wishing you a delightful day!

Awaken to Your Greatness

Let inspiration work its magic on you

The radio wakes me up one morning with Beethoven’s “Moonlight Sonata.” As I lie in bed, tears of gratitude well up as I drink in this mesmerizing melody.

The gratitude sharpens my awareness of how amazing it is that a composition written in Vienna in 1801 came to be played in Los Angeles in 2018.

So much of the past has vanished into history’s mists, as far beyond the reach of memory as the dinosaurs.

Why does the “Moonlight Sonata” live on, when so many other sonatas have been written and forgotten since then? writing-1043622_1280

How it got handed down to us 

There were no recording devices in 1801. No copying machines. No printers.

Every copy of Beethoven’s Piano Sonata No. 14, later named “Moonlight Sonata,” had to be painstakingly written out by hand.

Then, it had to be passed on to musicians, arrangers, and conductors so it could be played in concert halls, royal courts and fancy parties, before finding its way to private homes, public universities and, eventually, YouTube.

Why go to so much trouble over a little “Moonlight”?

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Majestic music stirs our souls, awakening divine qualities like Greatness in response to the divinity embedded in the song.

The quality of the “Moonlight Sonata” is such that when people hear it, it enters their souls … and they feel this immortal song must be shared, so more hearts can be touched by it.

Over the centuries, there’s no telling how many people this melody has affected, by directly or indirectly inspiring romances, marriage proposals, novels, inventions, paintings, poems, healing touch and heartfelt prayers.

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The power of inspiration

When we feel, hear, or see Greatness, it awakens that quality within us.

We all have the capacity for Greatness.

Inspiration ignites it.

When we allow our Greatness to come out and play, it inspires others to express their genius, as well.

What lights you up?

Whatever inspires you … consider doing it more often.

Let inspiration work its magic on you.

The world needs your gifts. That is why your abilities and talents were given to you; to be shared.

True, it takes courage to share yourself.

Courage deserves appreciation, so …

In gratitude Beethoven

Thank you, Ludwig van Beethoven, for ignoring those who told you that you would never make a penny as a composer.

Thank you for listening to the music inside you that demanded to be expressed so others could hear it. Bless you, for bringing forth the songs your soul sang to you.

Thank you to all the individuals who listened to “Moonlight Sonata” and thought, “Others must hear this,” and made it so.

Thank you to KUSC-FM, which wakes me up every morning with music that makes my heart rejoice.

And thank you, dear reader, for being who you are and doing what you do.

No one can express your unique, precious and irreplaceable gifts better than you.

That is your Greatness. Let it shine forth to bless us all.

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Click here to listen to “Moonlight Sonata”