Have You Misplaced Your Confidence?

You get better results when you put your faith in love rather than fear.

In a world where anything can happen, you need confidence now more than ever just to keep putting one foot in front of the other.

If you’ve lost faith in yourself (or never had it), check out this video.

Let go of any belief that if you have faith in yourself and do the right thing, nothing bad will happen to you.

That belief only creates suffering, because that’s not how life works.

This is how life works: Stuff happens.

You get through it by putting one foot in front of the other.

So, choose to believe that if you have faith in yourself, you will be able to handle whatever life brings your way.

You have more courage, strength, and wisdom than you know.

I believe in you.

Go well.

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Reason #2 Why It’s Hard to Get Clarity

If you fear change, check this out

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It can be hard to get clarity if part of you believes having clarity will trigger scary changes in your life.

If you tend to feel confused about what you want or how to get it …

Chances are you have unconscious beliefs that if clarity happens, disaster will ensue.

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If you’re like most people, you have limiting beliefs lurking beneath the surface of your mind that you don’t even know you have.

All you know is, you want clarity – and it’s just not happening.

Frustrating, right?

It may be that your unconscious mind blocks your clarity because it believes something like:

  • If I get clarity, I’ll have to leave behind everyone and everything, and move to a strange new place
  • If I get clarity, I’ll realize how unhappy I am, and that will make me more miserable than ever
  • If I get clarity, I’ll have to quit my job and then I’ll end up homeless

Want some help undoing the unconscious beliefs keeping you from seeing the truth that will set you free?

  • Would you like your Higher Power to show you why clarity serves you better than confusion?
  • Would you like to know what you would really have to do if you got clarity, in relation to what you thought you would have to do?
  • Would you like to understand the true extent of your free will?
  • Would you like to know how much power you truly have, and why it is safe for you to know this now?

If you would like these healing downloads, please say “Yes” out loud now.

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Imagine shimmering golden light shining down through the top of your head and filling your body.

Notice how you feel.

Good job! Thank you!

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

I truly appreciate your taking the time to read this, and perhaps allow this healing if it feels right to you.

What would you do if you had clarity? Please share your thoughts in the comment box below … and have a great day!

One Way Clarity Makes Your Life Easier

If indecision keeps you stuck, check this out

Wouldn’t it be great if you could make up your mind about the important stuff – like your work, your purpose, or your relationship – with ease and grace?

Clarity makes that possible.

First, let’s get clear about what clarity is.

It’s knowing:

  • What you want to be
  • What you want to do
  • What you want to have

When you have clarity, your life gets easier right away because …

Decisions become a no-brainer

confidence andre-hunter-62014When you know what you want to be, do, and have, you can examine every choice through the lens of: “Does this option take me closer to, or further from, what I want?”

If it takes you further from what you want, you say “No” to that choice.

If it takes you closer to what you want, you say “Yes” to that choice.

If you’re not sure, flip a coin – heads for Yes, tails for No.

Whichever way you hope the coin comes up, you have your answer.

Your hope reveals what you truly want.

Choose what you want with confidence, knowing that it wants you as much as you want it.confidence psychology-2647941_1280Would you like to find your way to clarity now?

It can be hard to clear the clouds of confusion and doubt all by yourself.

The good news is, you don’t have to.

Join tonight’s FREE “Get Clarity” Healing Circle to get support in finding out what you want to be, do and have – so you can start walking toward the life calling out to you.

We meet tonight at 5 p.m. Pacific Time online and by phone, so you can join us from anywhere in the world … and I would love it if you do.

Can’t make it tonight? Sign up anyway to get access to the replay

 

 

Healing Circle warren-wong-323107-unsplashIn our 30-minute guided meditation, you will:

  • Discover why you’ve felt confused about what you want – and clear it up
  • Release unconscious beliefs like “I can never have what I want” and “If I know what I want I’ll have to do something about it,” which block clarity from coming to you
  • Gain a new understanding of what is possible for you, so you can get out of your own way and get on with creating the richly fulfilling life you deserve

Whether you listen live or later, this healing circle will help you find your way to the clarity that makes indecision a thing of the past.

Sign up here to join tonight’s FREE healing circle.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, my dear friend.

May this day bring you many delightful surprises!

Reason #1 Why It’s Hard to Get Clarity

You lose touch with yourself when you lose sight of your dreams

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

It can be hard to have clarity if part of you believes clarity is a really bad idea.

If you tend to feel confused about what you want or how to get it, chances are you have unconscious beliefs blocking your ability to set and reach goals that are meaningful to you.

It’s not your fault

If you’re like most people, you grew up hearing “No!” a lot – from parents, teachers, big brothers and other authority figures.

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Maybe you stopped asking for what you want because you knew your request would be refused – so why bother to ask?

Maybe you even pretended you didn’t want anything, to avoid the pain and shame of yet another “No.”

Repressing desires that you feel sure will go unsatisfied is a normal way of protecting yourself from disappointment.

The downside: you lose yourself when you lose touch with your dreams and desires.

So, if you have trouble getting clear about your dreams or goals, it may be because a very strong, smart, loving part of you believes that if you get clarity, something bad will happen.

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Here’s the bottom line

It’s impossible to create a fulfilling life unless you know what fulfills you.

This involves knowing what you want, need, and value – the first step to turning your dreams into your reality.

Part of you already knows. More clarity will come when confusion stops serving you.

You see, getting clarity can seem scary if your wounded inner child believes clarity = disappointment, rejection, or shame. What sane person wants that?

So, none of your blocks to clarity will go away until your unconscious mind believes it is safe for you to know what you want and how to get it.

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Want some help with that?

  • Would you like your Higher Power to show you why it is safe for you to have clarity now?
  • Would you like to know what will happen if you have clarity, in relation to what you have imagined would happen?
  • Would you like to know why it is safe for you, and safe for others, for you to know and reach for your dreams now?
  • Would you like to know how to confidently take the next step now?

If you would like these healing downloads, please say “Yes” out loud now.

Imagine shimmering rainbow light shining down through the top of your head and filling your body.

Notice how you feel.

Good job! Thank you!

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

Would you like to get clarity, so you can start creating a richly fulfilling life, one inspired step at a time?

It can be hard to lift away your blocks to clarity all by yourself.

The good news is, you don’t have to.

If you would like to experience more healings, please join us for the FREE “Get Clarity Here and Now” healing circle on Tuesday, March 13, 2018.

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We meet at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time online and by phone, so you can join us from anywhere in the world … and I would love it if you do.

In this 30-minute healing meditation, you will:

  • Discover why you have felt confused about what you want – and clear it up
  • Release unconscious beliefs like “I can never have what I want” and “If I know what I want I’ll have to do something about it,” which block clarity from coming to you
  • Gain a new understanding of what is possible for you so you can get on with creating the richly fulfilling life you deserve

Can’t make the live call? Sign up anyway to get access to the limited-time replay.

If you are DONE with floundering and flopping your way through life, check out this healing circle. You never know. One idea could change your life.

 

 

 

[Video] 3 Cool Ways to Find Your Passion

When you connect with your passion, you connect with your true self

Life without passion feels dry and flat.

Life with passion feels juicy and rich.

When you connect with your passion, you connect with your true self … your aliveness … your joy.

If you’ve been feeling discouraged or flat lately, try one of these 3 cool ways to connect with your passion.

Reason #2 Why It’s Hard to Find Your Passion

Too much loss can make you lose faith in life, making finding your passion seem pointless

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

It can be hard to find your passion if you have little or no faith in life.

If doubt and disbelief arise when you think about finding and pursuing a passion, chances are you feel too betrayed by life to risk taking a chance one more time.

It’s not your fault

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If you’re like most people, you have experienced loss and suffering time and time again.

To avoid further disappointment, you gave up hoping for anything better.

Closing the door on hope is a normal self-protective practice – until it shrivels your soul and you trudge through your days with nothing fun or good to look forward to.

So, if you can’t find your passion, it may be because you’re afraid to believe again – which is understandable, given your past experiences.

Yet, without passion … without a joyful reason to get up in the morning … you are only going through the motions of living. You are half alive.

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Here’s the bottom line

If you want to find your passion, you need to find a reason to believe again.

If you’re like most people, you feel betrayed by life because things haven’t always gone your way – therefore, you cannot trust life.

This line of reasoning only proves the shortcomings of logic, because it overlooks the bigger picture:

Life is a dynamic process, always on the move. Our planet hurtles through space at more than 500,000 miles per hour.

To expect that life will always go in the direction you want is to invite disappointment.

Instead of declaring life to be bad and wrong because it hasn’t followed your game plan, consider revising your game plan to include faith that whatever happens, you will handle it somehow.

It stands to reason because you’ve handled everything life has brought you, so far. The fact that you are breathing in and out proves that you are strong and smart and brave and lucky, for many people have not lived to see the age you are right now.

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Want some healings around this?

Would you like Infinite Love to heal the wounds of disappointment, despair and desperation you have suffered?

Would you like to understand that what felt like rejections were truly protections, in ways that make sense to you?

Would you like your Higher Power to give you the highest understanding of how to work with Life in the highest, best, most wonderful ways?

Would you like to feel loved and supported by Life now, and going forward?

If you would like these healing downloads, please say “Yes” out loud now.

Imagine rainbow light sparkling through all dimensions of your body, mind, heart, and soul.

Notice how you feel.

Good job! Thank you!

Click here to listen to this healing meditation

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Would you like to find your passion, so you can enjoy more fun and freedom in your life?

It can be hard to step out of the prison of self-protective doubt and disbelief all by yourself.

The good news is, you don’t have to.

Join this month’s FREE “Find Your Passion” Healing Circle to get support in finding your passion and expressing it in ways that fill you with joy.

We meet Tuesday, February 13 at 5 p.m. Pacific Time online and by phone, so you can join us from anywhere in the world … and I would love it if you do.

In our 30-minute guided meditation, you will:

  • Discover your passion so you can experience more freedom, fun and fulfillment right away
  • Gain clarity about your passion, so you can take steps to add more joy to your daily life
  • Connect with the gifts your soul came here to share, so your life takes on greater depth and meaning

If this sounds good to you, click on the link here to register for this free online healing circle.

If you can’t make the live call, go ahead and register anyway so you can get a link to the limited-time replay.

To get the most out of the “Find Your Passion” healing circle, please take a moment to answer the questions on the registration form. Not a requirement – just a suggestion to enrich your experience.

Thank you for taking the time to read this, my dear friend.

May this day bring you many delightful surprises!

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Up, Up and Away

What makes your heart soar?

Young Derek loves Superman comics, movies and TV shows. He’s so crazy about the Man of Steel, he wants to BE Superman.

One of Superman’s coolest powers is that he can fly … so Derek decides he will fly, too.

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He climbs up on the roof, secures his Superman cape (one of Mom’s faded gym towels) and dives into the air, aiming for the big oak tree across the street.

He plops into the hydrangea bush just below his jumping-off point.

Derek’s mother, Susan, glimpses his plunge from the window in her home office. She jumps up and runs into the yard at warp speed to check on her boy.

Susan finds Derek cradled in the bush, more shaken than hurt.

“Honey, what happened? You’re bleeding!”

“I’m the Man of Steel, Mom,” Derek explains. “What’s the big deal about a few scratches? Get me out of here so I can try it again.”

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“Forget it, kiddo. I thought a young man of 7 would have more sense than to jump off a roof, but I guess not.”

Susan checks Derek for bruises and finds none. She extracts him from the bush and sends him into the house to wash, breathing deeply to keep herself from screaming at her son.

“It’s a time-out for you, after you clean up. I want you to think about what you’ve done.”

Moments later, sitting in a corner facing the wall, Derek tries to figure out what went wrong, using one of his real-life superpowers – intelligence.

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“Why didn’t I fly?”

“Is it because I’m a loser, like Tommy said the other day when he beat me up and took my lunch money? No, that’s not it. Tommy is a bully. He’s the loser, not me.

“Is it because I don’t deserve to fly? I don’t see a connection there. What does being deserving have to do with being able to fly?

“Is it because I forgot something? I had everything … no. Wait. I forgot Superman is from Krypton. That’s why he can fly. And I’m from Earth … so … I guess I can’t fly, after all.

“But I want to fly more than anything. I can see myself flying, in my mind. It’s so clear. If I could just draw it, maybe I could …”

“Okay, Derek, time’s up! Did you think about what you did?”

“Yeah, Mom. Do we have anything to draw with, around here?”

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Fast-forward 15 years

Derek sits beaming at his booth at Comic-Con, where hundreds of fans have lined up to meet him – the   world-famous creator of “Dynamic Derek – Boy Genius” comics.

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Much as he loves creating superheroes for DC Comics, his biggest thrill comes from seeing all the boys and girls who love Dynamic Derek.

Knowing he’s inspired them fills Derek with awe and gratitude. It makes his heart soar higher than Superman ever thought of flying.

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Would you like to be like Derek …

Setting aside limiting beliefs like “I’m a loser” or “I’m not worthy,” so you can focus on doing what makes your heart soar?

It can be hard to get out of your own way all by yourself.

The good news is, you don’t have to.

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Come and join this month’s FREE “Fresh Start Healing Circle” to get support in moving forward with clarity and confidence.

In our 30-minute guided meditation, you will:

  • Gently release regrets about the past, while deepening the wisdom you’ve gained
  • Ease your anxiety about the future, so you can take action with confidence and joy
  • Strengthen your self-confidence so you can trust yourself to make good choices as you move forward

Sign up now to get:

  1. Convenient reminders so you won’t miss out
  2. Replay links, so you can gain new insights every time you listen
  3. The power-packed Fresh Start Cheat Sheet, loaded with practical tips you can use right away – or print up and keep handy for when you’re ready to make your move!

Hope to see you there, my dear!

In the meantime, may the New Year bring all you desire – and more! You deserve it.

What makes your heart soar? Please share your thoughts in the comment box below. Thank you!