Do You Have Shiny Object Syndrome?

This expensive malady can bust your budget …

As Summer winds down, are you pondering a Fall project to bring 2017 to a fabulous finish?

There are so many great programs out there to help you:

  • Write your book
  • Launch your business
  • Begin a blog, podcast, or video series
  • Market your products or services
  • Monetize your message

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So many options.

So little time.

How do you choose what to work on next?

Before you start any new project to build your biz or brand, let me ask you:

Whatever success means to you, how worthy of success do you feel, on a scale of 1 to 10?

Notice the first number that pops into your head.

If it’s “8” or above, you’re good to go. Choose the project that excites you the most – and go for it. Doing what delights you helps you stay the course once the initial excitement wears off.

If it’s “7” or under, file under “Later” the program(s) you’re thinking about joining.

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You’re on the verge of falling into Shiny Object Syndrome – a debt-generating malady that drives you to:

  • Sign up for exciting new programs …
  • Avoid starting or finishing the program …
  • Get distracted by a new Shiny Object …
  • Buy it …
  • Avoid starting or finishing it …

And so it goes, expensively ever after.

What is up with that?

Deep down, you feel unworthy of the success you believe the project will bring you…

So, whether you fear success or failure (or both), you unconsciously sabotage yourself with indecision, distraction (hello, new Shiny Object!), or realizing you must re-pot all your plants before you can concentrate on your new project.

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Sound familiar?

It does to me. I’ve done all those things. How about you?

Here’s the thing. It’s not your fault.

If you’re like me, you’ve cultivated a sense of unworthiness since you were a child, out of a very understandable desire to avoid accusations like, “You’re getting too big for your britches,” “Who do you think you are?” or “How can you be so selfish?”

The great news:

You fell into a trance of unworthiness, and you can come out of it. Self Worth Here and Now

You start waking up the moment you decide to do so.

Then, you consciously own your worthiness so you can get unstuck and keep moving forward.

You may have to own your worthiness several times a day, until you shed your unconscious addiction to self-doubt … but think of the rewards:

  • Authentic self-confidence that empowers you to trust yourself to handle the wonderful people and exciting opportunities attracted by the glowing charisma confidence gives you
  • Deeply rooted self-respect that allows you to set healthy boundaries, so you have the time, energy and focus needed to move toward the greatness waiting to meet you
  • Heartfelt self-compassion that lets you see missteps as bumps in the road, rather than the end of the road, so you can stay motivated to find the Abundance that wants to find you.

If you would like help busting out of Shiny Object Syndrome so you can:

  1. Delight in working on your passion project
  2. Joyfully complete it
  3. Reap the abundant rewards awaiting you as your year ends in victory …

Please join us for the latest Abundance Healing Circle. Get the details here.

Hope to see you there, my dear!

Have you found your way out of Shiny Object Syndrome? Please share with us in the comment box below. Many thanks – and congratulations!

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Who Screwed Up Your Abundance?

Why do long-desired blessings show up – and then vanish?

With all your struggles, your prayers, your achievements, your unmet needs …

Why haven’t you gotten any closer to the rich and fulfilling life you yearn for, deep in your heart?

Good question!

  • Is it because you screwed up?
  • Is it because your parents screwed you up?
  • Is it because the Universe screwed up?

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Consider this

If you can only have the blessings you are willing to receive … and that’s pretty much how the Universe rolls … it would explain a lot, wouldn’t it?

  • Why a financial windfall shows up, then slips through your fingers before you know it
  • Why you have a wonderful first date with someone special – who never contacts you again
  • Why you ace an interview for your dream job, only to find out it’s given to someone else less qualified than you

Look, situations like these are not your fault.

It may be that having “more than you deserve” – whatever that means to you – violates your innate sense of fairness.

In response, you unconsciously block “too much good” so Divine Order can be maintained – and the blessing vanishes.

We all know how painful that can be!

Would you like to stop doing that now? Self Worth Here and Now

Get help with clearing your Abundance-blocking beliefs at the September Abundance Healing Circle: “Self-Worth Here and Now.”

You are lovingly invited to join this gathering online on Tuesday Sept. 12 at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time.

You will walk away from this inspiring and interactive gathering with a firm foundation for:

  • Authentic self-confidence that empowers you to trust yourself to handle the wonderful people and exciting opportunities attracted by the glowing charisma that confidence gives you
  • Deeply rooted self-respect that allows you to set healthy boundaries, so you have the time, energy and focus needed to move toward the greatness waiting to meet you
  • Heartfelt self-compassion that lets you see missteps as bumps in the road, rather than the end of the road, so you can stay motivated to find the Abundance that wants to find you

If this sounds good to you, click on this link for more info.

I hope to see you there, my dear!

Have you had a long-desired blessing come into your life, only to vanish – and you could never figure out why? Please share your thoughts in the comment box, if that feels right to you.

Why is it Hard to Attract Abundance?

When you feel deserving, attracting Abundance gets easier

Grainds of Sand by-evan-kirby-263915Here’s the deal:

You can keep on trying squeeze a few grains of Abundance from the iron grip of a stingy Universe, if you believe that’s what it takes.

But until you feel you deserve to have what you want, you’re going to expend a gigantic amount of energy for teeny-tiny results.

I hate that whole “Tons of Effort for Zero Results” thing. How about you?

You can only experience as much Abundance as you feel worthy of receiving. No more and no less.

The Universe’s allotment of Abundance may seem random, yet it is precise in giving exactly as much as you feel worthy of receiving.

If you want to recognize your true (Infinite!) worth so you can attract more Abundance, you are lovingly invited to join the September Abundance Healing Circle: “Self-Worth Here and Now.

You will walk away from this inspiring and interactive gathering with a firm foundation for:

  • Authentic self-confidence that empowers you to trust yourself to handle the wonderful people and exciting opportunities attracted by the glowing charisma that confidence gives you
  • Deeply rooted self-respect that allows you to set healthy boundaries, so you have the time, energy and focus needed to move toward the greatness waiting to meet you
  • Heartfelt self-compassion that lets you see missteps as bumps in the road, rather than the end of the road, so you can stay motivated to find the Abundance that wants to find you

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If this sounds good to you, please join us live online or by phone on Tuesday September 12 at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time.

Can’t make the live gathering? Sign up anyway to get the MP3 download of this virtual healing circle. Listening to the recording brings you smokin-hot fresh insights every time you listen.

If you are so over the roller-coaster ride of emotional uncertainty, financial insecurity and frustratingly unfulfilling work – this Abundance Healing Circle is for you.

Change Your Mind About Money

If you can change your mind, you can change your financial situation.

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As William James tells us, “If you can change your mind, you can change your life.”

If you’re looking to change your financial situation, your mind needs to change first.

 

The transformation of your financial life comes afterward.

That’s just how it works, because your inner world creates your outer world.

Let’s take an up-close look at how this applies to your situation:

Changing your mind so you can attract more money can be difficult to do by yourself, because your ego-mind has a lot invested in keeping your blind spots in place.

It’s afraid you will see the truth – that infinite abundance is available to you right now.

Weirdly enough, your ego-mind does this because it loves you. It keeps your blind spots invisible to protect you from the disaster it imagines massive wealth could bring, like:

  • If I get rich, I will be punished
  • If I have financial success, I will have to work 24/7 to keep the money coming in
  • If I have all the money I want, I will lose my motivation to live my life’s purpose and disappoint God

So, while you may consciously desire tons of money, another and more muscular part of your mind believes something bad will happen if you get rich.

That’s because your ego-mind has linked prosperity with painful emotions and memories from your past, your parents’ past, or even further back than that.

This keeps you stuck in a “one foot on the brakes, one foot on the gas” mentality with money.

We can start undoing that right now, if you wish. Would you like your Higher Power to show you:

  1. How and why and what it feels like to be wealthy and safe at the same time
  2. What will really happen if you have millions in cash, in relation to what you have imagined will happen
  3. How and why you can be the master of money right now
  4. How to reliably recognize who loves you for yourself and who just wants your money
  5. How to know you are still you, even though you get more prosperous every day

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart … and sense Infinite Light rippling from your center out to the world, the sky, and beyond.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week – and celebrate it!

Thank you so much for the opportunity to be of service to you today. Much love and many blessings to you!

Would you like more quick, loving healings like this? Get more info here.

 

Transform Your Money Mindset

Does your mind take you toward Abundance, or away from it?

DiamondIf you want to attract more money but worry that if you get rich …

– You will have to do things you don’t want to do

– Your friends will be jealous and mean to you

– You will lose something or someone you value

… You are lovingly invited to replace these prosperity-busting beliefs with prosperity-building beliefs in the “Money Magnet Healing Circle 2: Attract Money by Mastering Your Ego-Mind” on Tuesday July 11, 2017.

In this highly interactive online class, we will:

  • Heal the love/hate relationship with money that keeps prosperity far away from you
  • Release the top three fears about money, freeing you to prosper with confidence and joy
  • Set you up for success with a simple, do-able Prosperity Practice you can use to continue increasing your abundance

How much peace of mind will you enjoy when you see plenty of money flowing to you from wherever it is?

How fulfilled will you feel when you share your gifts in ways that prosper you as well as others?

What new adventures await you as you step into financial freedom?

Join Money Magnet Healing Circle 2 and find out!

In addition, to support you as we go into deep waters, you will receive a special rate on private prosperity sessions with me.

If you can’t make the live call on Tuesday July 11 at 5 p.m. Pacific Time / 8 p.m. Eastern Time, sign up anyway to get the MP3 of the call.

You will get all the healing from the live class, and qualify for the special rate on one-on-one personal prosperity sessions by phone or Skype.

Whether you join us or not, please accept my warmest wishes that you live long and prosper!

Clear Your Confusion About Money

Ambivalence about Abundance keeps it far away from you.

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“A house divided against itself cannot stand.” – Abraham Lincoln

Did you know your mixed feelings about money affect your ability to attract it?

If part of you loves the idea of having more money, yet part of you fears it … money will have a hard time finding its way to you.

That’s because a confused mind says “No” to whatever it’s confused about.

Here’s an example

Shelley shared with me her frustration over her struggling company:

“Part of me wants my business to do really well, so I can buy a house and support my kids and not worry about money all the time.

“Another part of me is scared that if my business takes off, I’ll never see my kids or my friends because I’m working so hard – and I’ll never meet anybody, either. I’m basically afraid my business would take over my life if it gets as big as I want it to get.”

I asked her, “How is your business doing right now?”

She groaned. “It’s more like a hobby than a business. I’m hardly making any money at all.”

“This reminds me of something Abraham Lincoln once said: ‘A house divided against itself cannot stand,’” I noted.

Your mind is divided against itself because part of you wants a successful business and another part feels scared by what you think success will bring. You’re seeing your business as a lose-lose proposition – you lose if it tanks and you lose if it succeeds.

“So, your confused mind has been saying ‘No’ to your business … which influences potential clients and investors to say ‘No’ to your business, too … because we are all One.”

I asked Shelley – and I ask you – would you like your Higher Power to heal your divided mind so you can say “Yes” to having what you want in ways that feel safe, joyful and liberating for you now?

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart … and sense Infinite Light filling your crown chakra and radiating through every cell in your body.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week – and celebrate it!

Shelley soon celebrated the dozens of clients pouring in.

What would you like to be celebrating? Please share it with me in the comment box below. I’d love to hear from you!

How to Allow Abundance into Your Life

Accepting your body helps you attract more abundance

“It doesn’t matter how much you have. It all means nothing if you are not happy with yourself.” – Donald Duck

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Did you know your feelings about your body affect your finances, your romances, and every other part of your life?

That’s because deeply felt, long-held emotional energy attracts that which is like itself. Love attracts love, anger attracts anger, and so forth.

Let’s take a look at your relationship with your body and see how it colors your world:

If you starve yourself to lose weight …

If you stuff yourself with food to fill the emptiness inside …

If you rage that your body has betrayed you by getting hurt or sick …

You can begin healing by recognizing the emotional energy driving these actions – fear, sadness, anger.

All these emotions are normal; everyone feels them at one time or another, including me. It’s okay: Whatever emotions you feel, your Higher Power loves you just the same.

It’s when you hold on to those feelings that things can get sticky. That you can get stuck.

Here’s the deal:

The way you feel about your body reflects the way you feel about yourself.

Your feelings about yourself shape the way you treat yourself …the way others treat you … and the way Money, Love, and Life itself tend to treat you.

When you regard your body with appreciation, compassion, generosity and respect, you open the door for other people, Money, and Life itself to treat you the same way – because we all are One.

In the end, as Donald Duck reminds us, “It doesn’t matter how much you have. It all means nothing if you are not happy with yourself.”

Here’s the fun part:

When you are happy with yourself, golden opportunities fly to you; paths to success open before you; and marvelous people, who think you’re wonderful exactly as you are, find their way to you.

If you would like to set that in motion now, is it okay if your Higher Power shows you:

  • How to recognize the beauty, sacredness and wisdom of your body, exactly as it is right now
  • Why you can feel motivated and excited about making healthful choices, even though you accept your body as it is right now
  • How magnetic you become to money when you appreciate your body as it is right now – and why that is, in ways that make sense to you
  • Why feeling happy with yourself brings more fulfillment, love, prosperity and success than feeling dissatisfied with yourself, in ways you and your ancestors can understand
  • How and why accepting yourself and your body contributes to creating a world that works for everyone

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart now. Sense the energy of unconditional love filling your body, mind, heart and soul.

Good!

Thank you so much for the opportunity to be of service to you today.

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