What’s holding you back?

Self-doubt keeps you scared, small and stuck

Have you been feeling stuck lately? 

As if you want to do something to move toward a goal you really, really want – if only you knew what to do, and could be sure it would turn out okay?

Feeling stuck?

It’s hard to take action when a fearful inner voice insists on getting an ironclad guarantee that, if you take action, it will work.

There’s just one problem

Nothing in life is guaranteed. It’s frustrating, but there it is.

So, how can you – indeed, why should you – take action when you can never be sure how it will turn out?

How can you take inspired action?

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One baby step at a time.

Why should you take inspired action?

Because of who you become as you dare to walk toward the greater life calling out to you.

It can be hard to take action, inspired or not, without self-confidence. In fact, it’s pretty near impossible.

If self-doubt has kept you stuck in fear, indecision, or procrastination …

Help is here

Join us for the free new Abundance Healing Circle “Self-Confidence Here and Now.”

In this 30-minute guided meditation, you will experience:

  • Healing of the wounded inner child keeping you scared, small and stuck
  • Clearing of the blocks to self-confidence your ego-mind created in a misguided attempt to keep you safe
  • New understanding of the experiences that made you lose faith in yourself – so you can forgive yourself and move forward with confidence and joy

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If this sounds good to you, click on this link to register for this free online healing circle, set for 5 p.m. Pacific Time on Tuesday October 10th.

If you can’t make the live call, go ahead and register anyway, so you can get a link to the limited-time replay.

To get the most out of “Self-Confidence Here and Now,” please take a moment to answer the questions on the registration form. Not a requirement – just a suggestion to enrich your experience.

You can do it
Believe in yourself

If you have already registered for this free call – thank you! How about sharing the magic by sharing this invitation to your friends?

Thank you for taking the time to read this, my dear friend. May Abundance of every kind find its way to you.

 

 

What would you do if you knew you could not fail? Please share your thoughts in the comment box below. Thank you!

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How to Feel Worthy of Abundance 2

If you feel too damaged to have Abundance, this tip is for you.

Here’s another great tip on opening to receive the Abundance you’re been trying so hard to attract.

If you’re of the millions of people who feel too damaged to have the good things in life, this tip is for you.

Maybe you’re hurting because you’ve been abandoned, attacked, disappointed, injured or sick.

I get it. I’ve been hurt, too, to the point where I lost hope.

In fact, I ran from hope. It felt like torture, because my fear of disappointment was so great.

Hiding by-caleb-woods-182648 (1)The thing is, pain – physical, mental, or emotional – pain makes children of us all … and our sense of ourselves, of our lives, and of what is possible for us shrinks down, too.

If you’re like most people who are hurting, you close off to your greater yet-to-be because you want to curl up in the seeming safety of a small life.

Maybe today is a good day to remember you are bigger than your brokenness …

How about we do this right now?

Put one hand over your heart and one hand on your belly.

Close your eyes …

And take in a deep breath as you say, “I am One with Wholeness…”

And let out a deep breath as you say, “And Wholeness is One with Me.”

3 Heart by-mayur-gala-487Let’s do this twice more. Your unconscious mind needs to hear something three times to believe it.

Again, deep breath in … “I am One with Wholeness…”

Deep breath out, “And Wholeness is One with Me.”

Once more …

Deep breath in … “I am One with Wholeness…”

Deep breath out, “And Wholeness is One with Me.”

Good! Notice how you feel. Great job!

That’s it for today, I’ll be back soon with another great tip. In the meantime, remember – you are LOVED!

Please share your comments with me. I’d love to know what you think!

How to Feel Worthy of Abundance 1

If you feel unworthy of love, success, or wealth, this video tip is for you

Here’s a great tip on opening to receive the Abundance you’re been trying so hard to attract.

 

If you’re of the millions of people who feel unworthy of love, success, or wealth – this tip is for you.

Chances are, one reason you feel unworthy is because you’ve done some things you can’t forgive yourself for doing, or failing to do.

I get it.

There are situations I look back on and think, “Geez, that wasn’t my finest hour.”

Listen – you were doing the best you could at the time …

Maybe today is a good day to let go of the guilt and shame that’s been draining your energy and blocking Abundance from coming into your day-to-day life.

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Put one hand over your heart and one hand on your belly.

 

Close your eyes …

And take a deep breath in as you say, “I am One with Forgiveness…”

And let a deep breath out as you say, “And Forgiveness is One with Me.”

Let’s do this twice more. Your unconscious mind needs to hear something three times before it believes it’s true.

Deep breath in … “I am One with Forgiveness…”

Deep breath out, “And Forgiveness is One with Me.”

Once more …

Deep breath in … “I am One with Forgiveness…”

Deep breath out, “And Forgiveness is One with Me.”

Good! Notice how you feel. Great job!

If you notice a change after doing this process, will you kindly share it in the comment box below? It might help others to know what you experienced.

That’s it for today, I’ll be back soon with another great tip!

In the meantime, if you would like to experience more healing around opening to receive the Abundance you have been asking for, click here for more info.

Are You Paying the High Cost of Low Self-Esteem?

Strengthening your self-worth may seem like an airy-fairy project you can easily put off until your life calms down enough for you to take some time for yourself.

The way things are going, you can put it off forever. Most people do. It’s not just you. Many of us have been trained since childhood to put ourselves last.  ian-dooley-298769

Yet, consider this:

Low self-worth can cost you hundreds of thousands of dollars in lost income – not to mention the deep personal fulfillment you can gain only from living your purpose.

If you feel unworthy, undeserving, or inferior to others:

  • You never launch your coaching or healing practice because you think you need to be perfect before you can help others
  • You never start (or finish) your book because you think someone else already said it better
  • You charge too little to stay in business because you feel unworthy of being paid what your goods or services are worth
  • Your artwork sits in a corner gathering dust because you think it isn’t good enough to display
  • You put off starting on your passion project because you’re afraid it will fail – or that it will succeed – or both
  • You will die without having sung your song

My dear, people are looking for you – yes, you, personally.

They feel your presence on the planet. Let it go

They need to hear what you have to say in the way only you can say it.

They need to see what only you can show them.

Maybe it’s time to heal the low self-worth that passes for humility in good-hearted, highly conscious people like you – so you can do what you came here to do with confidence and joy.

If you would like help with that, you are lovingly invited to join the September Abundance Healing Circle: Self-Worth Here and Now.

We meet online and by phone next Tuesday, September 12, to discover:

  • Why an authentic sense of self-worth attracts Abundance
  • What needs to happen for you to recognize your innate value – and doing it right on the call
  • How you can know your true worth without turning into an egomaniac or narcissist
  • What amazing things will happen when you gain compassion and respect for yourself and others

In addition, we will do personal, one-on-one healings with three callers – including you?

If this sounds good to you, click here for more details.  Self Worth Here and Now

If you’re waiting for things to slow down before you consider why your wants and needs stay at the bottom of your priority list…

It will never happen …

Because it takes a strong sense of your own value to claim the time you need to nurture yourself.

Maybe allowing yourself to take 90 little minutes to join this call – live or listening to the MP3 download – is a good place to start.

If you sense it’s time for you to start walking toward the greater yet-to-be calling out to you … one baby step at a time … come join us!

Who Screwed Up Your Abundance?

Why do long-desired blessings show up – and then vanish?

With all your struggles, your prayers, your achievements, your unmet needs …

Why haven’t you gotten any closer to the rich and fulfilling life you yearn for, deep in your heart?

Good question!

  • Is it because you screwed up?
  • Is it because your parents screwed you up?
  • Is it because the Universe screwed up?

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Consider this

If you can only have the blessings you are willing to receive … and that’s pretty much how the Universe rolls … it would explain a lot, wouldn’t it?

  • Why a financial windfall shows up, then slips through your fingers before you know it
  • Why you have a wonderful first date with someone special – who never contacts you again
  • Why you ace an interview for your dream job, only to find out it’s given to someone else less qualified than you

Look, situations like these are not your fault.

It may be that having “more than you deserve” – whatever that means to you – violates your innate sense of fairness.

In response, you unconsciously block “too much good” so Divine Order can be maintained – and the blessing vanishes.

We all know how painful that can be!

Would you like to stop doing that now? Self Worth Here and Now

Get help with clearing your Abundance-blocking beliefs at the September Abundance Healing Circle: “Self-Worth Here and Now.”

You are lovingly invited to join this gathering online on Tuesday Sept. 12 at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time.

You will walk away from this inspiring and interactive gathering with a firm foundation for:

  • Authentic self-confidence that empowers you to trust yourself to handle the wonderful people and exciting opportunities attracted by the glowing charisma that confidence gives you
  • Deeply rooted self-respect that allows you to set healthy boundaries, so you have the time, energy and focus needed to move toward the greatness waiting to meet you
  • Heartfelt self-compassion that lets you see missteps as bumps in the road, rather than the end of the road, so you can stay motivated to find the Abundance that wants to find you

If this sounds good to you, click on this link for more info.

I hope to see you there, my dear!

Have you had a long-desired blessing come into your life, only to vanish – and you could never figure out why? Please share your thoughts in the comment box, if that feels right to you.

Do You Sabotage Your Abundance Without Knowing It?

Sneaky subconscious beliefs can keep you struggling

Click here to listen to this Abundance Activation

Feeling unworthy is like putting a huge obstacle into the God force, into the life force which is everywhere. – Wayne Dyer

Here’s the thing:

Even if you think you’re worthy of Abundance …

Even if you believe, with every fiber of your being, that you deserve lasting love and permanent prosperity …

Only when you FEEL worthy of the good things in life will you match the energetic frequency in which Abundance dwells and thereby draw more blessings into your life.

Why is that? 

  • Thoughts make up about 5% of your consciousness
  • Emotional energy makes up the other 95%

Given that 95% is way more than 5%, does it make sense that your emotional energy determines whether you manifest more Abundance in your life? Gap by-tommy-lisbin-316755

There is a huge gap between thinking you deserve good things and feeling you deserve good things.

That gap makes the difference as to whether you experience poverty or prosperity; loneliness or love; frustration or fulfillment.

Are you stuck in that gap? 

Here are four signs of hidden unworthiness blocking your Abundance:

  1. You brush off compliments with “It was nothing” or “You’re only saying that because you’re my sister” (or mother, brother, husband, or best friend)
  2. You refuse a friendly offer to hold the door open when your hands are full
  3. You say “Yes” to unreasonable demands because even the idea of saying “No” scares you
  4. You pretend something is okay when it is So. Not. Okay.

Do any of these situations seem familiar to you? Each one indicates an underlying sense of unworthiness.

As Wayne Dyer notes, feeling unworthy is like putting a huge obstacle into the God force.

Ready to get unstuck? Golden Light_dev-benjamin-222588

Would you like your Higher Power to release your unconscious obstacles to Abundance now …

In ways that feel safe and comfortable to you …

And replace them with Abundance-attracting thoughts, feelings and beliefs that feel completely authentic and natural to you?

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart … and imagine crystalline white light streaming across your third, fourth, fifth and sixth dimensional bodies … leaving behind shimmering pink-gold light.

Very good!

By doing this process, you’re bringing more Abundance to yourself – and everyone else, as well, because we are all One. Bless you!

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week – and celebrate it!

If you liked this process, you can experience dozens of similar healings in our upcoming Abundance Healing Circle – “Self-Worth Here and Now

Will you join us? Self Worth Here and Now

We meet live online Tuesday Sept. 12 at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time – and you will receive an MP3 download of the circle, in case you can’t attend in person.

Thank you for the opportunity to be of service to you today. You grace me.

Much love and many blessings to you!

Would you like more quick, loving healings like this? Get more info here.

Looking back, can you see any occasions when you turned away from love, success, fame, fortune, or perfect health because it felt like too much, or you didn’t feel ready?

Me, too.

If you like, please share in the comment box below. Thank you!

Why is it Hard to Attract Abundance?

When you feel deserving, attracting Abundance gets easier

Grainds of Sand by-evan-kirby-263915Here’s the deal:

You can keep on trying squeeze a few grains of Abundance from the iron grip of a stingy Universe, if you believe that’s what it takes.

But until you feel you deserve to have what you want, you’re going to expend a gigantic amount of energy for teeny-tiny results.

I hate that whole “Tons of Effort for Zero Results” thing. How about you?

You can only experience as much Abundance as you feel worthy of receiving. No more and no less.

The Universe’s allotment of Abundance may seem random, yet it is precise in giving exactly as much as you feel worthy of receiving.

If you want to recognize your true (Infinite!) worth so you can attract more Abundance, you are lovingly invited to join the September Abundance Healing Circle: “Self-Worth Here and Now.

You will walk away from this inspiring and interactive gathering with a firm foundation for:

  • Authentic self-confidence that empowers you to trust yourself to handle the wonderful people and exciting opportunities attracted by the glowing charisma that confidence gives you
  • Deeply rooted self-respect that allows you to set healthy boundaries, so you have the time, energy and focus needed to move toward the greatness waiting to meet you
  • Heartfelt self-compassion that lets you see missteps as bumps in the road, rather than the end of the road, so you can stay motivated to find the Abundance that wants to find you

Self Worth Here and Now

If this sounds good to you, please join us live online or by phone on Tuesday September 12 at 5 p.m. Pacific Daylight Time.

Can’t make the live gathering? Sign up anyway to get the MP3 download of this virtual healing circle. Listening to the recording brings you smokin-hot fresh insights every time you listen.

If you are so over the roller-coaster ride of emotional uncertainty, financial insecurity and frustratingly unfulfilling work – this Abundance Healing Circle is for you.