Would you rather be right, or be happy?

The high cost of saying “I told you so”

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It feels so good when you’re right, doesn’t it?

Cynthia knows that feeling well.

She saved her daughter Heather from pulling a prank that might have cost her the chance to get into a good college.

She saved her husband Tom from asking his boss for a raise at the wrong time

She saved her colleagues from turning in a report with incorrect data that would have cost the company thousands of dollars.

She’s Wonder Woman, right?

With a track record like that, you would think Cynthia would be a happy woman.

Yet, she feels drained from putting out fires for other people. While her family and co-workers rely on her, Cynthia senses they don’t like her very much, and that hurts. Where is their gratitude for her efforts on their behalf?

In fact, their gratitude melts away in the heat of shame when Cynthia reminds them, with a look or a word, “I told you so.”

It’s hard to love someone who would rather be right than care about how stupid you feel when she puts you in the wrong.

The heart of the matter

In her heart, Cynthia worries that if her loved ones trust themselves more and rely on her less, they won’t love or need her anymore. So, she tries to make herself indispensable, and only exhausts herself in the process.

I have done that. How about you?

If so, would you like your Higher Power to:

  • Show you why you are lovable and valuable just as you are right now
  • Reveal why your life has meaning and purpose exactly as it is right now
  • Fill your heart with all the love you ever wanted and never got
  • Unwind your attachment to rightness and replace it with lovingkindness
  • Show you who you are and how to live your life knowing you matter, just like everyone else

If so, please say “Yes” out loud or in your heart now, and feel the light of love gently shining on every cell in your body.

Very good!

Notice how you feel.

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If this Abundance Activation helped you in any way, you are lovingly invited to join the Abundance Healing Circle “Happiness Here and Now,” where you will experience many awakenings like these on Tuesday August 8.

Click here for details and registration for this powerful and empowering online event.

In the meantime, thank you for allowing me to support you a little bit today. Wishing you all the best. You deserve it!

Where do you need support right now? Please share your thoughts below. I care.

 

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Got Change?

Even when life takes you by surprise, you have more power than you think

Here’s a thought from the great American newscaster and cancer survivor Linda Ellerbee:

There are two types of change: the change we choose, and the change that chooses us.

It’s empowering to choose change and see our lives get richer and deeper as a result.

It’s even more empowering, when change chooses us, to choose how we respond to that change.

We can wail and moan and gnash our teeth – or we can find our way to acceptance by asking, “Show me the blessing here. How does this change benefit me?”

Only when we accept a situation can we see it with clarity and compassion, so we can make wise choices about our best next move.

Would you like to know how to do that right now? If so, say “Yes” out loud right now* and feel the energy flowing in through the top of your head.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week. And celebrate it!

That’s your Abundance Activation for today. Wishing you all the best, now and always!

* Seriously. This energetic download will only go in with your verbal permission, because we honor your free will. If you want it, say “Yes.”

What have you done to adjust to an unexpected change in your life? Please share your wisdom with us below! Thank you.

You don’t have to be an Einstein …

To recognize the Abundance around you

Here’s a thought from the great physicist and philosopher Albert Einstein:

There are two ways to live: you can live as if nothing is a miracle, or you can live as if everything is a miracle.  

When you live as if everything is a miracle, you find yourself in a constant state of joy and appreciation for the abundant and varied richness of life.

Does it make sense that when you do that, you attract people and opportunities that match those feelings – and inspire even more joy and appreciation?

I invite you to walk your path today in appreciation of the miracles that constantly unfold before you … and to know you are, yourself, a very great miracle indeed.

Would you like to do that right now? If so, say “Yes” out loud right now* and feel the energy flowing in through the top of your head.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week. And celebrate it!

That’s your Abundance Activation for today. Much love and many blessings to you!

* Seriously. This energetic download will only go in with your verbal permission, because we honor your free will. If you want it, say “Yes.”

What is one thing you appreciate in your life right now? Please share in the comment box below.

Got summer stress?

Relax in this spa for the soul

If you feel stressed by busy days with too little time for much-needed relaxation … 

How would you like a soothing spa for the soul that leaves you feel refreshed and rejuvenated?

It’s only a click away, when you join the new “Abundance Healing Circle: Happiness Here and Now.”

  • Experience more happiness and joy right away
  • Build a foundation of inner peace that keeps you steady under any circumstances
  • Power up your intuition, so you can trust your inner guidance to reveal the next right step … and the next … and the next

Happiness Begins Within …

So, we’re going to refresh your 12 major Chakras by giving them:

  • A minty-fresh cleansing to revitalize your mind, body, heart and soul
  • A fine-tuned balancing to keep your inner being steady, strong and joyful
  • A glowing expansion so you can more easily connect with the Infinite Love, Truth, Wisdom and Abundance available to you every moment of every day

If this sounds good to you, click here to register.

If you can’t make the live call at 5 p.m. PDT on Tuesday August 8, go ahead and register anyway so you can get the MP3 download. Listen to it whenever you want to relieve stress or anxiety.

In addition, Healing Circle membership qualifies you for discounted Personal Abundance Coaching with me by phone or Skype.

To get the most out of “Happiness Here and Now,” please take a moment to answer the questions on the registration form.

That way, I’ll make sure to address your concerns on the call, whether you attend live or listen to the replay.

Please leave a comment in the box below if you have any questions, will you?

Thank you for taking the time to read this. May Abundance of every kind find its way to you, today and every day.

Who is in Charge of Your Abundance?

Does love or fear drive your decisions?

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“If God is your co-pilot, maybe you should change seats.” – Barbara Hightower

While you may consciously desire prosperity, a more ancient part of your mind fears something bad will happen if you gain wealth.

Flying highThe question is – which part of your mind is in charge? The part that will pilot your journey to abundance … or the part that will zoom you off in a different direction?  

Let’s take a closer look.

Since infinite abundance is your natural state, where does all that financial struggle come from?

It’s generated by the ego-mind. All the attention, energy and focus you gave to your fears allowed it to take over the pilot’s seat in your life.

As Barbara Hightower suggests, if God is your co-pilot, maybe you should change seats.

If you place the ego-mind where it belongs …

It could do its job of keeping you safe, instead of throwing you off-course by going in the direction of your fears rather than your dreams or goals.

Trouble is, the ego-mind likes being in the pilot’s seat; it refuses to give up that position because it believes you will crash and burn if anyone else handles the flying.

The ego-mind also prefers being in charge because it feels less frightened when it has control over things, even though it can never control anything – except you, if you allow it.

Fortunately, this fear-full aspect of your mind can be led to a new way of thinking that will guide you to prosperity and abundance of every kind.

It can be led by you because you are the God of its world. Like a seven-year-old child who adores you, it will do almost anything to please you.

To guide your ego-mind in the direction of your desires, you need to be the pilot.

Taking the lead in your life may seem unnatural or scary to your ego-mind – even though it’s your natural state of being. Your consciousness was designed to guide you toward your deepest desires.

Would you like support in getting comfortable with your position as the pilot in your life? We can start doing that right now, if you wish.

Would you like your Higher Power to show you:

  • What your past and present financial circumstances really mean about you, in relation to what your ego-mind told you they meant
  • All the evidence your ego-mind ignored that proves your innate goodness, innocence, wisdom and worthiness
  • All the evidence your ego-mind rejected that proves you have everything you need inside of you to start prospering right now
  • Why you can trust yourself to make wise and loving choices, even though you become more prosperous every day
  • Why you can trust yourself to take the lead in your life now and what will happen if you do

 

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart … and sense Infinite Intelligence lighting up the center of your brain and activating an answering light in every cell in your body.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week – and celebrate it! If it feels right, tell me about it in an email.

Thank you so much for the opportunity to be of service to you today. Much love and many blessings to you!

Would you like more quick, loving healings like this? Get more info here.

What needs to happen for you to trust yourself more? Please share your thoughts with me in the comment box below.

Change Your Mind About Money

If you can change your mind, you can change your financial situation.

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As William James tells us, “If you can change your mind, you can change your life.”

If you’re looking to change your financial situation, your mind needs to change first.

 

The transformation of your financial life comes afterward.

That’s just how it works, because your inner world creates your outer world.

Let’s take an up-close look at how this applies to your situation:

Changing your mind so you can attract more money can be difficult to do by yourself, because your ego-mind has a lot invested in keeping your blind spots in place.

It’s afraid you will see the truth – that infinite abundance is available to you right now.

Weirdly enough, your ego-mind does this because it loves you. It keeps your blind spots invisible to protect you from the disaster it imagines massive wealth could bring, like:

  • If I get rich, I will be punished
  • If I have financial success, I will have to work 24/7 to keep the money coming in
  • If I have all the money I want, I will lose my motivation to live my life’s purpose and disappoint God

So, while you may consciously desire tons of money, another and more muscular part of your mind believes something bad will happen if you get rich.

That’s because your ego-mind has linked prosperity with painful emotions and memories from your past, your parents’ past, or even further back than that.

This keeps you stuck in a “one foot on the brakes, one foot on the gas” mentality with money.

We can start undoing that right now, if you wish. Would you like your Higher Power to show you:

  1. How and why and what it feels like to be wealthy and safe at the same time
  2. What will really happen if you have millions in cash, in relation to what you have imagined will happen
  3. How and why you can be the master of money right now
  4. How to reliably recognize who loves you for yourself and who just wants your money
  5. How to know you are still you, even though you get more prosperous every day

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart … and sense Infinite Light rippling from your center out to the world, the sky, and beyond.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week – and celebrate it!

Thank you so much for the opportunity to be of service to you today. Much love and many blessings to you!

Would you like more quick, loving healings like this? Get more info here.

 

Clear Your Confusion About Money

Ambivalence about Abundance keeps it far away from you.

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“A house divided against itself cannot stand.” – Abraham Lincoln

Did you know your mixed feelings about money affect your ability to attract it?

If part of you loves the idea of having more money, yet part of you fears it … money will have a hard time finding its way to you.

That’s because a confused mind says “No” to whatever it’s confused about.

Here’s an example

Shelley shared with me her frustration over her struggling company:

“Part of me wants my business to do really well, so I can buy a house and support my kids and not worry about money all the time.

“Another part of me is scared that if my business takes off, I’ll never see my kids or my friends because I’m working so hard – and I’ll never meet anybody, either. I’m basically afraid my business would take over my life if it gets as big as I want it to get.”

I asked her, “How is your business doing right now?”

She groaned. “It’s more like a hobby than a business. I’m hardly making any money at all.”

“This reminds me of something Abraham Lincoln once said: ‘A house divided against itself cannot stand,’” I noted.

Your mind is divided against itself because part of you wants a successful business and another part feels scared by what you think success will bring. You’re seeing your business as a lose-lose proposition – you lose if it tanks and you lose if it succeeds.

“So, your confused mind has been saying ‘No’ to your business … which influences potential clients and investors to say ‘No’ to your business, too … because we are all One.”

I asked Shelley – and I ask you – would you like your Higher Power to heal your divided mind so you can say “Yes” to having what you want in ways that feel safe, joyful and liberating for you now?

If so, say “Yes” out loud or in your heart … and sense Infinite Light filling your crown chakra and radiating through every cell in your body.

Now, notice how you feel. Notice what’s different about your life in the coming week – and celebrate it!

Shelley soon celebrated the dozens of clients pouring in.

What would you like to be celebrating? Please share it with me in the comment box below. I’d love to hear from you!